I have not come across many but one does stand out.
The guy used to be my classmate and after a modest education started working in a security agency. I ran across him soon after finishing my housejob and was doing an attachment and he will not let go any chance of trying to tell me that oh ho, so you don’t make any money and you are supported by your parents etc. And he called me yesterday asking for some help. Shud i kich arse or forgive and be a good person.
Re: The discouragers
forgive him.
but i am sure he wont realize his pervious actions so dont expect any favors in return.
Re: The discouragers
well Zobia the guy used to laugh at me, literally infront of other firends.
Re: The discouragers
Help him!!!....jo Ala zerf hotay hein..woh jhuk k mila kertay hein!!. In the end ur the one who is in gain!!!.
hmm u never know...ur one kind gesture can infuse sum sensibility in dat person!!
Forgive him, and Allah(swt) will forgive for your sins.
Maaf ker dena ALLAH kaa pasandeeda amal hai and is mein bhalaii bhi hai .But agar aap nahi bhi help kertay to aap per koii gunnah nahi choice is yours what you wanna do.
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Iconoclast... here you are surrounded by such good muslims... each will fall over the other to urge you to forgive and blah blah. However, my question is ... you were doing your housejob (presumably as a doctor); that akhrot was working for a security agency... how the heck did you let him roll all over you back then with his taunts. You should have replied right there and then that "oye chowkidaar ki bhi suno... ye bhi kuch bola!!!" followed by a loud and raucous laughter :D
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^ 
forgive him.