The difficulty in finding true love

One keeps looking all his life for true love but when is it ever found? Does it even exist? I wonder sometimes. How would you define true love?

True Love is having Greek olive skin, descending from Alexander, and having a crush on Jewish bankers even if they continually reject.

^ did i say i was on the lookout?

theres no such thing as true love its just wishful thinking

And sometimes like you find it like but it’s like unrequited like :teary1:

I’m still prepared to forgive you for going off with whatshisnamewizardytypeofbloke Come back to me, you know our love is meant to be :flower1:

It exists alreit and hts you when you least expect it...

Definition - sacrifice...for the sake of the others happiness...yet you don't see it as sacrifice...not a compromise..just total surrender.

true love cannot be find.. its not a commodity to look for somewhere..

It's hard to conquer true love without first conquerring our own self. We humans are lost in a maze of ubiqutous cliches defined by others around us. We end up looking for "true love" as defined by people.

We tend to treat love as a goal or target. It ain't any of that. It is a developmental process. True love requires flexibilty. It ain't rigid. We are. It's a clash.

May be its because we are in love with ourselves. The day we start lvoing someone for what they truly are, we will find true love.

I think it ultimately comes down to love of self. That to me is the truest form of love out there. Dunno if I make sense.

Re: The difficulty in finding true love

Why are you still wondering if you’ve already found a true love which you mention about every now and then? :konfused:

That makes perfect sense, Munni

:flower1:

lowering ur expectations might help.

:k:

i thought this love thread beemari existed only in cafe! :smack:

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It's hard to conquer true love without first conquerring our own self. We humans are lost in a maze of ubiqutous cliches defined by others around us. We end up looking for "true love" as defined by people.

We tend to treat love as a goal or target. It ain't any of that. It is a developmental process. True love requires flexibilty. It ain't rigid. We are. It's a clash.

May be its because we are in love with ourselves. The day we start lvoing someone for what they truly are, we will find true love.
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Well said!

its the kind that cannot be explained or defined.

It can onlt be felt.