the difference between aap and tum

Re: the difference between aap and tum

i dont like when someone calls me tum...... not even any elders...

i was brought up in a home where everyone called everyone 'app'
i dont use 'tum' it sounds really rude.....

even my husband talk to me like this 'app wait kejiya ga' i dont use this kijiya ga.... but i do use 'ap esa karain'