Re: the complexion… part 2
I love it when people justify their superficiality under ‘personal choice’. Every action we do is ultimately a personal choice. For example, we dont engage in using foul language because we want to have good manners, yet it is still a personal choice. Just bc smtng is a personal choice, it doesnt make it right.
This is the exact reason I feel our perception of dark complexion continues to exist bc the concept that it is an ok thing to reject someone with a dark compexion is lumped under one’s personal choice. I really hope this is not smtng we teach our kids, else there is no way this sort of discrimination will be eliminated from our society.
To the OP: IMO it is wrong to reject someone based solely on their complexion. Piety is the number one criteria for marriage.