Re: the complexion… part 2
Why do people automatically assume that just bc you are not attracted to someone’s looks prior to marriage, two lives will be ruined. That is actually the most unfortunate thing imo that two human beings have SO much to offer like love, sincerity, and every characteristic that makes a human a human being, yet so much emphasis is placed on a temporary sense of attractiveness that it can break a sacred union like a marriage. Didnt people in our parents time got married without even looking at each other and had absolutely the strongest long lasting relationships?..Just bc Ive seen that I refuse to believe that looks should have the strength to break a marriage, if it can break a marriage, we are doing smtng wrong and we need to change that rather than justify it. Imagine a world where you teach your kids that it does not matter how someone looks