The Child ..

Do you know the pain you cause…
…With words so harsh and cruel ?
What happened to the things you taught ?
Where is the “Golden Rule” ?

Treat me as you wish to be…
You reap just what you sow.
For many years your words hurt me…
It’s all this child did know.

Then came the time I became a man…
Degraded, lost and alone…
Each day I try to do what’s right…
But the way was never shown.

I was told I’d fail at all I’ve tried.
Unworthy, the ******* child.
**A son of a ***,never to succeed…
Your words was never mild.

I have wept at night wondering what I did…
You blamed my abuse on me.
So many times,I’ve wished to end my life…
No more days of sorrow to see…

Many prayers to God I have sent up…
Please stop these words of pain.
You hate me and you wish me dead…
My prayers seemed all in vain.

What shall I do to explain this thought ??
Do you realize what you do ??
Don’t forsake to measure your words…
What a child is depends on you.

I will survive because I know…
I’m not those things you say.
In spite of you… I will succeed
Somehow I’ll find a way…

Do you know the pain you cause…
with words so harsh and cruel ?
What happened to the things you taught ??
Where is the “Golden Rule” ???

** Wolf Morgan 2005**

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poori padhi nahin gai.. per zaban ke ghao gehre hote hain

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A toxic childhood has deep impact. Sad to see many children not getting the emotional security & moral support that they should from their parents, teachers, elders etc while growing up. It leads to the creation of disturbed adults.

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Either disturbed or a very very stable/determined person.

Childhood suffering construct you or destruct you.

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It usually destroys. Some may appear to have had a constructive effect by creating walls to their true self.
I have yet to come across a v v stable product of toxic childhood.

Determination isn't a measure of constructive/destructive effect of toxic childhood.

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Since I have/had come across such stable products so I am pretty positive about it.

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I hope I come across it too. Toxic childhood is lifelong torture.

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kami reh jati hai :hinna:

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True.

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Her insan ki zindagi mein kisi na kisi cheez ki kami zaroor hai

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lekin with toxic childhood, sab kuch milne ke baad bhi aisa lagta hai jaise kuch nahin mila. people lose sense of happiness and achievement.

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But people who suffered a lot in past know the true meaning of life/things/relations. They are far more vibrant/lively ..and more into helping others than the rest. And true escence of living is to live for others.
Truly inspiring people.

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Or more depressed, disturbed, pessimist .
I don't see many of the kind you mentioned.

Have you seen many of the kind you speak about? Or just 2-3 people?

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Many.

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Strange. I came across many who are the opp and not a single of the kind you came across.