The character that we aspire to be ..

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Re: The character that we aspire to be ..

@Chicken_Biryani

There are two kinds of positive characters around us amongst many kinds of people ..

1- Those who are very diplomatic in their thinking, communication, approach .. they easily settle the difficult situations , handle difficult people , problems .. They have the most friends and next to no enemies …
For example, they will say to A , it was your mistake too lekin B ki mistake hai bi .. etc …

2- The honest , credible kind … they just talk to the point .. no matter who gets offended they only say the truth , in a good tone though. For example , they will say to A , it was your mistake , try not to do it again in the future ..

Which character is the better one do you think? who gets more respected by the general mankind ?

You didn’t mention if it actually was the fault of both A and B, as opposed to just A. Things are never one person’s fault, so telling someone that all of it is your responsibility is not right. So, I would say 1.

However, you CAN tell A that you are wrong because you acted against a certain set of principles, in which case it becomes about them and they must take responsibility. I think when relevant, it is very important to do.