The Challenge of Choice

Here’s a good article, thought you’d like it.

Muslim Youth’s Mission: The Challenge of Choice
By: * Yasmin Mogahed*

A big Mac, a super-size fries, and a large coke: they take a minute to order and a minute to receive. So what happens if something takes longer? What happens if something cannot be picked up through a drive-thru and is not quite as fast as fast food or instant messaging? The American Muslim youth live in a society plagued by this fast-food syndrome, where we expect and, rather, demand, easy, quick solutions to every problem. Furthermore, we easily become impatient with anything less.

To exacerbate the problem, we live in a highly pleasure-oriented society, one in which the enjoyment of the individual is the central concern. Ads, campaigns, and most products endeavor to provide the consumer with utmost physical pleasure. Think abou the ad for Hagen dais ice cream for example,* ‘Passport to Pleasure.’* Or consider the ad on AOL for a bar-b-Q summer guide that said, ’ Flame your desire’. The ad for Camel cigarettes says, Seven Pleasures of the Exotic’. It is through this pleasure focus that products are sold, vacations are bought, and corporations are made wealthy. The products and ads are designed for a society that believes one should ‘eat, drink, and be merry, for tomorrow one dies’.

It is in this very context that our youth are to find their place. They are presented with the daunting task of struggling against these images and the nafs-worship they promote. Youth must swim upstream and carefully consider the significance of this age in the formulation of future concepts. The beliefs and schemas that we form in youth are carried throughout life and are almost impossible to shatter or even alter. We should therefore, be very careful to note how and with whom we are spending our time, and from where we are building the concepts that we carry into tomorrow. The images that we now allow our eyes to feast on, our minds to capture, and our hearts to worship, are the very images that will have an effect on us in adult life and in our graves.

Should we not then examine who our heroes are and from where we are getting our ideals? What kinds of traits do we covet? What are we striving for? We have to be careful when many of our heroes may be football players, and actors and the things most of us may admire have less to do with faith and more to do with sports ability, fame, and beauty. We must be concerned when our ideals come less from Allah and His Messenger, sallallahu alayhe wa sallam, and more from Hollywood, NBC, and Sports Illustrated.

Our beloved Prophet, sallallahu alayhe wa Sallam, taught us the significance of being of young age, he said, “No foot of a servant (of Allah) (on the Resurrection Day) will move before being asked about four things: his age (life) and how he spent it, his youth and how he wore it out, his wealth and how he earned it, and what he spent…” (Bukhari). A ditiful and devout youth is so honored by Allah that he is among the seven who are promised shade on a day when there is no shade but the shade of Allah (Bukhari and Muslim).

We must understand, however, that our struggle does not end at our own personal purification; it only begins there. We have a divine mission that begins with the purification of the self and ends with the purification and reformation of the entire society. A great task has been laid before us. We carry with us the responsibility of disseminating a divine message to the world. This job is of utmost importance. Islam and Muslims stand now at a crossroads in the United States and in the whole world. What we face now is a critical period that will serve a decisive role in the future of Muslims in the West and in the world. The youth of today are in reality, the leaders of tomorrow. It is, therefore, imperative that we take this responsibility very seriously.

What surrounds us is a life of excess, a life centered around immediate gratification aimed especially at us, who are “only young once.” Far removed from this life of heedlessness is a sublime life centered around a divine mission, ordained by the Lord of the worlds. In the end, it is ours to choose which life to live and which path to take.

i really loved reading this article, Muni. Lots of information that i think i could benefit from Insha'Allah.
Thank you.

Muni, I like your intent. The argument sets up false choices though. Lets get it straight: No one asked our elders to come to this society. They chose to do so inspite of some strong statements from the religious scholars about muslims leaving and settling in non-muslim lands. We do not have to stay here. We can always pack our bags and go to lands where there are not so many messages of instant gratification around. So the choice is not between following the life offered by the ads and the commands of Allha. The choice is in understanding that the ads are just ads and are using psychological techniques to get you to buy stuff. You can learn to ignore them, neutralise their message, and live the life you want to live. You really don't have to watch TV or go to the movies. That is the choice. The moment you select to use the ads for informational purposes to make informed decisions about what you want, and not some ego fulfilling vicarious thrill seeking life fullfilment because you are going to spend 2 dollars on some stupid stuff, all the power you describe vanishes. And you learn to appreciate the First Amendment and the right of some people to be total idiots. Why cannot I be a good muslim, and still enjoy football, watch movies, enjoy Hollywood etc. recogonising that this stuff is just entertainment. Can't I watch cartoons know that they are just stupid cartoons? I can laugh without saying that I have to go bonk some on the head like daffy duck? In my mind how can one even compare the Divine commands with some simple stupid entertainment?

Old Lahori, umm i know your post was directed to Muni but if i may reply to it as well since i happened to believe this article by Yasmin Mogahed was quite good.

>>Why cannot I be a good muslim, and still enjoy football, watch movies, enjoy Hollywood etc. recogonising that this stuff is just entertainment. Can't I watch cartoons know that they are just stupid cartoons?<<
Of course, one may do all of the above and still be a good Muslim. i don't think the article is suggesting otherwise, but what it does argue is that sometimes, we tend to live life as though this world is the 'be-all' and 'end-all'; it doesn't mean that the constant flow of images we receive from the media, and from society in general, are evil and that we should become hermits, find a cave, and live there until eternity. i realize you have heard this numerous times before, but Islam is always about balance - balance between deen and duniya. Being a good Muslim is not about NOT reading magazines like Sports Illustrated; perhaps, part of it is more about re/prioritizing, in order that one doesn't live only for this world. When the author states we should be "very careful" from "where we are building the concepts that we carry into tomorrow", i think she means that we should, in our subconscious-ness, be aware of where we base our values from and if needed, make some positive changes.

She seems to be worried about what sort of base Muslim youth utilize to build their morals and ideals upon; you talk about possessing a "choice" regarding how to use the ads that one views. We each have our own unique interpretations about everything, but i believe that your discussion of the "choice", is no different than the author suggesting we should be very cautious of where our values and ideals are deriving from. That's not the same as implying that anyone who watches Hollywood movies is a "bad" Muslim; anyone may watch Hollywood movies and Daffy Duck cartoons by all means. Being Muslim, for me, means always striving for that balance between the things that i like to do in this world to lead a comfortable, pleasant life and the deeds that i need to do for the next more permanent world (and because i perceive it is the permanent one, i place more importance upon the latter). Generally it's not one or the other, it's striving to do good in both.

And sorry if i make no sense whatsoever:-/

Assalamo Alaikum,

Muni: Jazakillahu khair! :)

Nadia-
I agree whole-heartedly! I couldn't have explained it any better.

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No one asked our elders to come to this society. They chose to do so inspite of some strong statements from the religious scholars about muslims leaving and settling in non-muslim lands. We do not have to stay here. We can always pack our bags and go to lands where there are not so many messages of instant gratification around.

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OldLahori-
Islaam is a boundaryless religion and has been in North America for centuries, even before the white man's presence. It is not a religion of just the Arabs, South Asians, or Africans. It is not just a religion of those who stepped on these shores a generation or two ago such that they pack their bags and leave.

I think the rest of your comments were addressed by Nadia and I too derived the same message from this article.