The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander

[Muslim_Queen]

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lol, Irem and ravage you two are so funny! Irem I always get picked on by my bros too, and I always end up yelling for my parents when we have our fun fights. One time I was sitting on a chair refusing to move, and they picked me up along with the chair and I screamed like I was being murdered. Ammi had a few words with them afterwards!

ravage-- the pinch . Uh maybe she was trying to get your attention?

[Muslim_Queen]

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@Deviliciousss

I wish teachers would take their time out to address this in schools. Usually in our school, we noticed kids fought an inch outside the school property and the principals, school guards n teachers would do nothing because its not on school property an hence they r not responsible. Isnt there a moral obligation as their peers to make it their responsibility. I observed the security guards and deans/guidance counselor were on pretty damn good terms with the bullies. It was wierd. They were known as the cool kids, so it was okay to make fun of someone, tease someone and get away with it. Schools really need to tackle this issues and mediation programs arent enough- What is a mediator gonna do when the school adminsitrations takes it as a joke. Its sad. Im done ranting.

Yes thats the case sometimes. That anything off school propery is not the responsibility of the school . Quite awful really.

But you’re right teachers should be aware of whats going on in their classrooms. I for one, did talk to all my students and asked them that whatever issues they might have regarding anything- they were free to talk it out with me.

Atlantis-- hmm the younger grades do get picked on more often true.

[abc1234]

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Atlanta i’m talking abt when we were KIDS
not now!!!
[btw one is older, other is younger and trust me they r mashallah very well behaved young men ]

MQ yeah man, male species is evil i tell ya

[Muslim_Queen]

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Now anywhere I go, Ive got both bros on either sides - my very own person body guards- I dont know whats worse - them with me or against me. :D

[abc1234]

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aww man…all i know is i love my brothers…i dont know what i wud do without em

[Sara516]

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@Atlanta

yikes, I’ve heard brothers fighting but I’ve never heard older brothers beat up on the younger sister. Irem, your brothers don’t seem to know proper etiquette.

my brother was 6 years older than me and he used to hit me all teh time

[Sara516]

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im so jealous of u guys u have such great relationships wit ur brothers...

[ravage]

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mq: and thats what my ghar walay used to tease me with.. and yeah she had my attention alrite. it used to be embarassing for me as an arnold type person amongst larkey to be so threatened and forced to be running scared by a larki :-/

sara: no larka can withstand the bunker busting nukes you folks have at your disposal. a few tisway here and there and your bhai would be fetching chocs for u from switzerland.

[AvgAmericanGirl]

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@Muslim_Queen

Yes thats the case sometimes. That anything off school propery is not the responsibility of the school . Quite awful really.

But you’re right teachers should be aware of whats going on in their classrooms. I for one, did talk to all my students and asked them that whatever issues they might have regarding anything- they were free to talk it out with me.

Atlantis-- hmm the younger grades do get picked on more often true.

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