Re: The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander
Madhanee-- er interesting. I - in one of my tempermental moods- told a friends kid to smack the kid who smacked him. But maybe telling them to stand up for themselves works - no need to bully back. But if a kid stands up for himself, chances are he/she will be alright. Its usually the timid kids who get picked on- the kids who cant do anything for themselves, and anybody can pick these kids out of a crowd of a hundred.
matsui--- Im sure you know that signs of physical bullying are easily detected, but those of psychological are not. Which is why I brought this topic up. And yeah even some really smart , intelligent people seem to miss out when their kid is being bullied. Not that they might not notice, but they simply dont take the time to get into their kids life.