Re: The Bride's Bag...
You're getting a lot of good advice about what to remember and think about for the wedding night. However, with all that in mind, I think the most important thing is to stay relaxed and to enjoy the new life you are beginning with your husband. All of these little details are great if they're worked out, but rarely do weddings run smoothly. Don't let it get to you. if you don't have everything you need, you two will figure out a way to get a hold of it, or adapt to the situation. It's not the end of the world. Just remember.
And if you're not ready to show yourself off in lingerie or to consummate your marriage, you should not feel pressure to do so. It is your choice and something that you and your husband will come to together.
Best wishes.