You dont say that to a monk!
Since you drew my attention to the matter I will explain few things.
Men Code Book page 536 line 28::
Two or more men can talk freely as long as they are on same ground.
Like both are taking a leak. Taking a shower in men's room at the gym.
even if they are in sauna with no towels on.(also speaking from personal exp)
Key word is "both on same ground"
If one is just doing nothing and have full cloth on , its kind of gay to have a discussion. And very uncomfortable.
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If still sounds gay? just hop in :) environment would be very non gay very quickly. lol