What if the wife never gets accepted by the inlaws and the rest of the family, her Husband stands by her b/c he sees what is really happening...then what fault is it of hers...or his?
I have seen this happen. I know an Aunt who had an arranged marriage with an Uncle. It took her over ten years to get accepted by her inlaws and extended family. They choose her but never accepted her once she came into their family. But because she never spoke a bad word and stayed patience, now she is loved, respected and accepted by everyone.
But she got a good bashing all for nothing for 10 years!