Re: The 90/10 Principle
hiiiii..na idar hotay ho na udar…
Re: The 90/10 Principle
agreed!
after hitting him i would smile go outside and get fresh air.
Breath in and Breath out.
Then slowly go towards lawyers office and get divorce papers with a smile.
Barbie - it was very nice to read it but as dope also mentioned you cannot have that approach on every single aspect of your life.
This world is too cruel.
Re: The 90/10 Principle
being sweet and nice all th time is best :k:
but ir doesn’t mean sending sweet and nice poisoned flowers to your worst enemy…i’ like that kissing death to your enemy spirit, lol
it does not help to get upset and rude, but a good correction with a smile is so much more delightfull!!
for example, few years ago one guy that worked under my supervision was allways late after teling him gently not to do that again…which he did not understand, i simply got rid of him with a smile …i was not upset, but relieved…and the guy, well, nothing to reply back cause i was right, and as not upset he could not attck me…
Re: The 90/10 Principle
I think it is true in some instances...but sometimes ppl can be cruel, so u have to stand up for urself...but generally, it is definately better to have a positive attitude and i agree ur reactions to situations r very important...but it's impossible for any person to be happy and sweet 24/7...it's a nice thought, and something we all shud strive for though...just don't let ppl walk all over u and take advantage of ur sweetness :)