thay-kay-dar

zobia · December 7, 2007, 5:09pm

Re: thay-kay-dar

wow…itna acha reply…

so tell me when we advice people, are we always honest with them? (from people i meant our friends, our acquaintance, and especially our colleagues)

ps. personally i dont think show-off is a bad thing. i mean if someone showing off in fronts of me, i get to do better than with him/her in a rational way.

but again many get offended. and they go further below in the building up their confident. (i gonna post an example for such scenario)

i miss you

Giving advice is not showing off, is it? the person who gives me most advice in my life is my mother, I doubt she is showing off.

I would state it a little differently, people like to use their education, exposure, experience and what life has taught us, to help others, so they dont make the same mistakes, or they have a better running start, whether it is helping a friend buy his firsty home, or help a new grad polish their resume.

all the time, I believe in continuous improvement. how much of the self evaluation results in some plans to do things differently, and how successful I am in changing those things varies. But thats life, u keep trying.

I think we were speaking about adults seeking others for advice. and if someone seeks me for advice and does not follow it, what can I do? they are probably asking other ppl for advice and picking and choosing what works best for them for their circumstances. My job is to give them my honest view, what they do with it is upto them.