This is NOT …i will repeat, NOT a male/female bashing thread…those of you who think otherwise…thats your prerogative. please try and answer honestly.
Why is it that when a male member of society questions, brags and basically mentions the word “sex” it is seen as a good thing and celebrated for the fact that he’s a man and he’s done what he has to do.
“well done son”
Then you have females, who mention the same word, or even think about thinking of mentioning the word are seen as dirty girls who bring nothing but shame?
“Your a Wh*re”
This isnt just a culture issue, im talking generally. is its ok for a man to go around gaining respect as he does by bragging and praising his performance?
there are somethings that really have no answer to them...
Of course some religious person will have a 100 different explanations..if those answers satisfy you great...but honestly I ve always chaffed against that kind of unfairness....and religoius answers esp in this case dont seem to offer alot of answers..
I say worry less about the world and just decide that you will live as you want..as long as you feel you are doing the right thing...then just ignore the rest...
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*Originally posted by GummyBear: *
there are somethings that really have no answer to them...
Of course some religious person will have a 100 different explanations..if those answers satisfy you great...but honestly I ve always chaffed against that kind of unfairness....and religoius answers esp in this case dont seem to offer alot of answers..
I say worry less about the world and just decide that you will live as you want..as long as you feel you are doing the right thing...then just ignore the rest...
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thanks chick, i understand where your coming from... i am a true believer of each to their own... i do ignore, and most importantly i try my best not to judge anyone in any way whatsoever...
I just don't understand why some woman are so easily judged...
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*Originally posted by Miss_Mohabbat: *
Why is it that when a male member of society questions, brags and basically mentions the word "sex" it is seen as a good thing and celebrated for the fact that he's a man and he's done what he has to do.
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huh? where is that? can't imagine such a fked up household where parents or others would praise someone for discussing "sex"..
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*Originally posted by Miss_Mohabbat: *
i don't mean in the household, i mean generally, men are praised by peers etc...u get me now?
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oh peers..
well men are more appreciative and supportive of their brother.. if he gets some.. good for him..
women on the other hand are jealouse creatures who just can't see even their best friend getting laid when they themself have to get by on dates with Bob.
well men are more appreciative and supportive of their brother.. if he gets some.. good for him..
women on the other hand are jealouse creatures who just can't see even their best friend getting laid when they themself have to get by on dates with Bob.
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Im taking your comments as "not serious"...
thanks for your contribution all the same chick...you'v answered my question in best way possible.
Missy any person be it a male or female who brags about his/her physical relationships is sick!
Now quit worrying your pretty head over it.The answer is that--all that talk about who has been out there more is not realistic, thats usually how they show it on TV and such.