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I get it. Bobby’s fav TV show must be “mob wives” 
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lol 
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there is a difference between rudeness and being strong and fiercely independent. When a strong independent woman chooses you, you know she truly likes you and didnt settle for the families check boxes. There is nothing more valuable then someone who loves you passionately.
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All kinds are equally women.
To each his own
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lol,
hmmm, ok Uncle maan lete hain, aapka experience hoga 
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:k:
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If someone forces or pressures them to be submissive and she is raised in a strict oppressive environment then basically she has not blossomed to be the person she would have been, if she had the care, love, understanding and nurturing and freedom to chose. A person living their life on their own terms will be a lot happier.
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She’s still equally a woman. We all are the results of our upbringing, experiences etc, be it good or bad.
So if she was raised in an oppressive environment and didn’t blossom, we put her aside because she’s not a proper woman? How fair and understanding are we?
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It takes a lot of strength and maturity to appreciate a strong woman, I ran into this German girl who was bicycling across Canada, she had just crossed over huge mountains, she would sleep in the bushes, forests, by lakes rivers etc..would that be great partner to share a life with? It is different back home where guys hang around with other guys but here your wife has to be your friend, companion and your support.
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It takes a lot more commitment, strength and maturity to accept a broken woman and help her become a strong woman.
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Marriage is for clicking, chemistry and love, best way to help them out is to speak against misogyny, patriarchy, gender inequality and to provide legal protections and try to bring about a change in social norms. Yes a good man can take that girl and make her blossom. I had to teach my wife that she is not required to be obedient and if I am being mean she should fight back, now she makes me run.
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hmmm, it’s good for her..
you’re right at some extent… but things on my side dont work like that or GENERALLY speaking not every girl do like that.. and yes, obviously wife should be your priority after marriage, and you must enjoy and share your lives with eachother and both of them should be best friends.. but Uncle I am actually talking about politeness.. and it is not only about meri hone wali biwi etc.. I want everyone to be polite.. this is how I am raised and that’s why I want it to continue.. this is totally my POV and my own decision.. other’s opinion can differ but that isnt going to change my mind.. coz shouting makes me upset and stops my brain.. & long story short, I praise politeness, manners and etiquettes to continue a peaceful happy life..
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Marriage is not an act of charity or welfare, one should never marry out of pity. Yes if you are in love with a broken woman then marry her and move heaven and earth to make her happy again.
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I understand your POV, talking loud, yelling, rudeness are actually signs of weakness and show insecurities.
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No,marriage is not a charity. And not every marriage starts as a love marriage either.
If everyone speaks up against what happens to these broken women yet considers them not woman enough then they may prevent future generations from becoming broken but the ones who are already broken will be thrown aside. No one will be man enough to really step up and accept them.
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thank you…
but dont you think boys and girls, both are becoming all of these that you mentioned?? and including Impatience…???
^I think both are guilty..
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I just dropped Safy off at the Uni and all the young people seemed so polite, courteous and considerate. Here the older people are way meaner and rude compared to youngsters.
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hmmm, people are changing rapidly.. and becoming batameez & besharam…
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Badtameez and besharam are subjective. What may be besharmi for you may not be so for your neighbor.
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and that is when their level of sharam dropped down to least..