All your life your family tells you to be a good person. And some of us want ourselves to be proven “good” . A part of being good is refusing temptation . My family was no different and I wanted to be a good kid most of my life . I refuse temptations to the point that I surprised my friends , some even jokingly make comment about my ability to do such a deed. But that was just a joke .
Time passed by , things changed . Family who loved and care about me got into position where we have sort of conflict of interests . My elder brother, without any reason stopped being my well wisher . I did not mind little things , but this one thing I couldn’t let go . He told my other brother that I was impotent and I myself told him that.
I had mixed emotions when I heard it . I laughed , got angry , and felt betrayed. On some level I was thinking that are they not the same people who wanted me to turn out to be a good kid ?
Well, reason I am telling you all this is because this one girl wants to have kids with me . After hearing my brother’s comment about a year ago, I cannot help but want to do it . Last time when she thought that she was pregnant , and then she wasn’t , I didn’t feel relieved .
I so want to do it . Any reason why I should not ? Am I just driven by anger ?
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I refuse temptations to the point that I surprised my friends , some even jokingly make comment about my ability to do such a deed. But that was just a joke .
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Yeah, happens unfortunately
Peoples' silly comments shoud be ignored. After all when he will marry then he'll have children and shut people up anyway so why give in to anger
Just don’t listen to other ppl and their stupid comments…only do things coz they feel right to you…not coz you feel that you have to prove something to some1 who says ridiculous things about you
Why is that hard for you boys? Marry them before you bed them. Simple. It’s part of your religion. You remember every part of your religion: hijab, 4 wives, staying at home, obeying her husband, treating his family with respect, blah blah blah.
Well I think that guy is just horny and trying to cover it up with anger . If some girl wants to have babies with me then most probably I'll be thinking about the future of those babies first . But there are few things in life that one shouldn't be confused about , and one of them is Gunah' Kaberah .
Temptation is all around us and I personally have friend who fast to keep themselves in control . Shaadi is halal way of doing it and if you'll have to lower your standards to have a halal thing , then its not a bad deal at all .
Even after everything people are advising you , and you still wana do it . Then do it . But just use protection , cauz being angry is just an excuse .
The guy has been humiliated and his ego has been severally bruised. This is how he will feel like a man again. It's a sad situation and an easy trap to fall into .... but I would advise against it. As PCG said, the guy can marry the girl and do it the halal way.
. . . and yea I been able to find a coupon for it too 
Naamiiii…I don’t want to be MOD…its a head ache 
