Telling spouse about your past

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no its not exactly a real situation where someone is in a dilemma, me and my cousin were just discussing whether it would be right for her to ever tell her husband that she once had a boyfriend adn they wanted desperately to get married but it just wasnt meant to be... i told her it would be the right thing to do, but not the best thing to do cuz you can never tell whether teh man will be accepting or would always bring that up during fights and that just might lead to him always questioning her and suspecting her... and i said i would wanna know about my husbands past because all relationships need to be based on trust and truth

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and to be honest, i wouldnt care if my husband talked to girls or exes or whatnot, because in the end all i want is his happiness and if i know about their relationship, then I really dont think he would take advantage of my trust and take his relationship further

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u cannot trust a man :snooty: …being trustble is alien to our character.:smiley: