tell me what to do

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Re: tell me what to do

@mfcesarah

i am new member here.. i have been engaged for 8 months getting married in December. my fiance is from back home and recently a issue came between us he wants me to live with him in Pakistan, which i thought for sometime until all the visa process is done… but the way he talks makes it seem like i will be there forever or he is not planning to come USA with me. every time i try to talk about it the answer is we will talk about after marriage.i am oldest in my house and have just recently finished my RN i want to make a life for myself in USA and be a good wife and daughter at the same time.
how do i tell him what i want clearly without being disrespectful?

You should have talked about this before you got engaged.