I need to ask a question my friend yesterday asking a question she is in financial problem i mean her husband Took loan from bank… u know kind of credit card payments its around 10 lakh after markup…she is really pareshan and trying to help hubby …by helping him k ghar ka kharcha per effect na hoo… in the mean time uski sister in law nay call kiya k unkay ghar ka kiraya uthana hai …ab usk hubby nay sister in law jo canada main hain unk paisay liye or uss main se sey 1lakh 70 thousand out of 7 lakhs main se use kiye for home expenses …now sister in law nay kaha k meray paisay baad main bhej dena …after that meri friend nay hubby ko bola k tell ur sister that we r in problem or hum nay unk paisay main se 1lakh 70 thousand liye hain …they have zameens and other property lekin due to HALAT OF PAKISTAN asani se nahin sale ho rahay …jabhi they r waiting jaisey hi kuch sale out ho woh loans karza utar dein…but usk husband never tell her sister abt problem nahin bataye aur after 3 months behen nay paisay mangna shuru kiye husband nay apni behen ko sab bhej diye except that 1. 70 than again my friend argued k pls batadein aisi kia baat hai behen ko batadein magar husband nay nahin bataya or last week meri friend k halaat financially bahut kharab theey …k unka flat achanak kirayae per chalagaya woh bahot khush hui but usk hubby nay jo kiraye k paisay aye woh behen ko send kardiye …ye sochay baghair what will happened at home? i dnt know did he do the rite thing ?
ya meri friend nay kaha k apni sis ko bata dijye k hum nay paisay liye hain we will pay her in 3-4 months per hubby nay uski nahin manni even meri dost nay apnay parents tak se karza liya 2 lakhs woh husband ko pay karna yaad nahin per apni behen ka dena yaad raha …my friend is shocked…i dont know wat 2 say her …
what do u guys say…usk husband nay loan liya tha apni construction k liye or pakistan k halaat kharab hogaye so sab cheezain stuck hogayen kuch sale out nahin horaha its like that…
first of all, i must say shaadi k bad larki ko apni family se loan nahi lena chahiye tha, becoz in pakistan men always prefer their family not their in-laws.
They should try to sale property at lower cost , if they really need it..........
Loan ki nobaat os waqt aye jab apke pas waqai hath me kuch na ho...... but if u have property then try to sale at best...... abhi pakistan me haalat itne b kharab nahi k property sale na ho..........
loans tu liye yaar per usnay apni mom se khudh paisay liye for home expenses.....she did wrong she said apnay husband ki mohabbat main and kids k liye ....... or husband nay apni behen ko pay kardiye uski zayeda fikar thee magar apni saas k na diye ......meri dost kehna chah rahi thee k behen ko ap bata dein .......she agrees k kam daam main bhi bhej dein property ko magar still kam dam k halaat main bhi masla atka hai u know karachi main aik haftay halaat kharab aik haftay sahi......
but now she is saying k i have a fight with my husband abt problems r mine but u just broke my trust by paying back to her sis immediately k kahin meri image meri behen ki nazar main kharab na hojaye........he said that............OH GOD u know wat my friend is shocked .......she said she will pay to her mom ASAP but wat abt husband he is so selfish ....!! N now she is quiet and not talking 2 him .........at all..........Y some mans do that? especially in PAKISTAN?
hmmm, mostly husbands apne in-laws k paison ko apna haq samjte ha n in most cases wapis karna bhool jate hain n agar Mrs. kahe tu osse alag baten sunni parti hain........
Apki frnd ne ghalti tu ki but i hope dobara aisa nahi karen gi, ghar n bachon ka khayal rakhna n unki zaroraten pori karna husband ka kaam ha......... I will suggest she should ask her hubby abt the return of money by keeping the mood n situation in mind n jaise hi property sale out ho, os me se pehle parents ko de dyn but it will take alot time .......... usually aisi situation me agar larki husband ko bar bar force kare tu baat boht agae nikal jati ha (means ghar me larai jhagray bar jate hain )
baat wapisi ki nahin cuz meri friend nay apni mom k one lakh tu de diye left 1lakh bhi woh deyde gi but she is shocked k itnay mushkil se ghar main paisay aye theey u know its eid ka season bachon k saath per usk hubby nay bajaye credit card payment k behen k paisay denay ko zaida zaroori samjha u know behen ko tu ap phir bhi keh sakhtay hain per credit cards waloon ko u cant say NO or woh paisay uss main kaam ajatay but she said unhoon nay ye nahin socha and she is like SHOCKED....
baat wapisi ki nahin cuz meri friend nay apni mom k one lakh tu de diye left 1lakh bhi woh deyde gi but she is shocked k itnay mushkil se ghar main paisay aye theey u know its eid ka season bachon k saath per usk hubby nay bajaye credit card payment k behen k paisay denay ko zaida zaroori samjha u know behen ko tu ap phir bhi keh sakhtay hain per credit cards waloon ko u cant say NO or woh paisay uss main kaam ajatay but she said unhoon nay ye nahin socha and she is like SHOCKED....
it is better to pay behan's loan first. Tell him to make minimum payment for credit card and cut down the expenses no matter it is eid, shadi, or whatever.
why lusi why it is better 2 pay behans loan as his saas loan is left also she said k na unki behan is in need na meri friend ki ammi they all r mashallah Rich ppl.....but here the problem is abt loans .......minimum payment is also required when money is left if her husband pay all her sis money and left nothing for minimum payment then wat ? who will pay the minimum then he will take karza from some one 2 pay minimum requirement that is y she is SHOCKED...