Re: tell husband how much savings you have? what your salary is?
He doesnt ask me to make him breakfast in the morning, and I dont have to iron his clothing. If there are days Im busy and don’t have time to clean the apartment, he doesnt mind. After our nikka he got me a gold set. He is book and street smart. I havent seen him with children so I can’t say. When I first started cooking making roti, I set off the fire alarm 
(because of like smoke, not because I burned anything) and he laughed, ( some husbands get angry if the girls are not good cooks) but he was ok with it, and he complements me if I do cook something well.
Im not really sure what your looking for answer wise, but this is what I could think of.