Nawab denies endorsing demand for girls
By Zulqernain Tahir
LAHORE, July 27: Malik Asad, Nawab of Kalabagh, told a visiting team of human rights activists and journalists that he did not endorse the surrender of girls in the Abbkhel deal.
"The complainant party had demanded 12 girls and Rs12 million in exchange for pardon for four men on the death row. Knowing this, I had refused to play the mediatory role between them. But later, on the assurance of exclusion of girls from the deal, I got the deal settled on Rs8 million", he claimed. However, the Nawab said, the complainants remained adamant and demanded at least two girls (from the families of the convicts) which was later unanimously allowed. He said the Nikah between Ata Muhammad, 80, and Waziraan Bibi, 18, and Mehr Khan, 55, and Tasleem, 16, had to remain intact till the release of the girls’ fathers from the jail.
About the Rukhsti which was arranged for July 26, he said: “It was not in my knowledge”.
The Nawab said he had invited both the tribes and the government officials on Sunday (today) to settle the issue on monetary basis alone. He said though the tribes had succumbed to the government pressure they felt more comfortable if their disputes were settled through arbitrary committees of area notables.
The Nawab refuted the allegation that he had facilitated the deal to increase his votebank in the area. He said that he had no plans to contest the October elections.
Identifying the root-cause of this custom in his area, the Nawab said three types of tribes with different caste were living here. Of them were the Awan who never compromised on anything to settle their disputes, the Khatiks were concerned with money only and the Niazis who had a tradition of exchanging girls besides money for the settlement of their disputes and quarrels. The Madi and Abbakhel tribes belonged to the Niazi caste, he said.
DIVORCE: Mehr Khan said the police had forced them to divorce the girls. He alleged that the police had tortured Ata Muhammad to sign the divorce papers. He said though they had excluded the girls from the deal under the government pressure, they would raise the issue in the Jirga on Sunday. He said that Ata had to seek Nawab’s refuge against the police harassment.
It is learnt that Ata had a quarrel with Mehr Khan over the choice of the girls for marriage. Mehr wanted to marry Waziraan, the daughter of main accused Sardar Khan.
CONVICTS: Sardar Khan, Akram Khan, Ashraf Khan and Asmatullah Khan who were sentenced to death in a double murder case in 1985, told newsmen in the Mianwali jail that a four kanal piece of land between their houses was the cause of a long enmity.
Sardar Khan said that they had been in the jail for the last 13 years and the deal was the only option left to escape the gallows. **“I personally hate to give my daughter’s hand to an 80-year-old man and not afraid of dying, but I want to save my brother and nephews.” **
Sardar said that they had deposited Rs8 million with the Nawab. He said if the deal materialized his tribe would support Nawab of Kala Bagh politically.
DIYAT: Some relatives of the girls appeared to be more interested in getting back some amount given by them as Diyat. The only educated man in the family, Ghulam Qadir, brother of Asmatullah, told Dawn that though they were happy for the timely government intervention to save their daughters from the cruel match, they would have been more happy if the government had helped reduced the deal money.
He said that they had to sell land and jewellery of their women to arrange the amount of Rs8 million.
Zafarullah, another family member, criticized the government for excluding the girls from the deal. **“People of this area do not mind exchanging their girls in such deals. It is a custom here. What matters for us is the money.” **He feared the release of the convicts might not end rivalry between the two tribes because a huge sum of money was involved.
The mother of Tasleem whose lost her left arm while cutting fodder a couple of years ago said that she was happy that the deal was intact and her husband would return home. However, she said that she suspected Ata Muhammad, the head of complainant party, to call off the deal because of his humiliation by police. She said Ata knew that their family had no hand in divorces and all this happened by the will of God. “We had handed them over our daughters but God did not want this to happen”, she added.
Tasleem, the daughter of convict Akram, said that she knew she was sacrificing for her father and could not get away with this ordeal. “However I stayed content and satisfied during the deal. I smelt a strange sense of freedom and happiness when I was informed that I was no more Mehr Khan’s wife”. she said.
**Tasleem was married to 55-year-old father of six children Mehr Khan. **
Tall and confident Waziraan, daughter of Sardar Khan, who had recently done her FA wanted to continue her studies. She was the lone sister of five brothers.
Holding tears in her eyes Waziraan said that she was hardly five when she last met her father. She said that it was her parent’s love that made her feel satisfied to marry an 80-year-old man whose grand children were of my age. Giving the example of Hazrat Ismail’s sacrifice, she said: “Whenever the idea of marrying an oldman haunted me I thought of Hazrat Ismail’s sacrifice and it gave me a great deal of strength”, she added.
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