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I didnt cry at my wedding, only got tears in my eyes while the nikah was being conducted. But it wasnt from sadness or anything, they were tears of happiness, just from the sheer emotions of what was happening

Timepass / Uncle Ehsan's Baithak - August 2012
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i cried during the nikah. the nikah, however, was done in a room separately so only a handful of people saw me shed tears. the rest of the people probably thought i didn't cry at all.

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just the thought of my rukhsati makes me sad! i've always wanted to not cry, because i didn't think i will. but as you grow older your feelings change, and i'm almost certain i will cry now. plus, my mom's really emotional, she hugged me and kissed me on my birthday and started tearing a little yesterday, so i'm sure she'll cry on my rukhsati too. and i'm the kind of person who starts crying after i see anyone crying :p

i think no matter how much you say you won't cry, or you try not to cry, you'll always end up crying a little bit. i mean ofcourse you're gonna see your parents the next day and after that. but you're officially leaving your home and the family you've been with all your life. you won't be sleeping there anymore, you'll only be going there for a few hrs to visit like guests do..there's so much that you start thinking of that makes you cry. i guess it's easier for girls who've dormed for a few years before they've goten married, because they're used to not living with their family, but even then, i think it gets sad for everyone.

Ahsaas-e-nadamat!!
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i know for sure i m gonna be miserable....and there r 80% chances of me fainting n what not...i m very sensitive n emotional....imagine i cried like crazy when my bhabi was havin her ruksati and it made her family laugh even those who were crying they ended up laughing sayin y the hell r u crying for?

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^awwww!

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hey congratz smughal.....how was the big day ????

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I didn't cry at my sister's wedding..... even though i cried at my cousins wedding..... i had to stay strong for my dad because my mom passed away like 1.5 years before she got married and i just thought if i start to cry whose gona take care of my dad so i was pretty strong...... but now when i think of getting married my heart breaks because i think of my dad crying and were like best buddies! so i definitely know that i am gona cry!

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I didn't cry at my ruksati because I was going to see everyone the next day but earlier that day at my nikkah (it was in the mosque) and it was just close family - I cried so much. It was so emotional. Even my saas cried :)

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The morning of my wedding I got up and could not believe I was getting married. I never stayed one day away from home and I could not imagine leaving my parents behind. I hugged everyone that morning in my house and we all cried.

Then at the rukhsati my dad hugged me so tightly and cried so hard I couldn’t control it. I think desi girls have a thing when they see their dads cry..it makes you so weak, you know? Then just before I got into the limo he hugged me once again and held me for so long. My entire family shed alot of tears mainly because we are such a tight knit family and leaving them was and still is totally hard. I wish there was an easy way to deal with things like this. :teary1:

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[quote="TabuB, post:67, topic:189542"]

My entrance song was teri ore from Singh is KIng and everyone loved it...coz it makes sense...like the lyrics are something on the lines :'rishta naya rabba yeh sumfin sumfin...keeche mujhe koi dor, teri ore'...so it suits that u are joining a new bond..

Gosh i had never considered that for an enterance song, but ur right...it makes sense, i may use it myself :)
x

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My cousin's wedding held in march 2002 and my wedding was in june 200 so we bet we didn'it cry at rukhsati time becoz it make atmosphere very sad. She didn't cry at all and her huuby asked her why u don't cry at rukhsati she told him that she bet not to cry :p but in my turn, I hold my tears in my eyes but as my father came in front of me and put his hand on my head, I forgot all bet and cry cry..... then my brother came and he hold me then I stopped crying. After wedding my cousin asked why u r crying u lose your bet. I didn't care of any bet at that time. What a emotional time :(.

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OMGGGG awww, by reading all these posts it showz that even though daughterz r close to motherz, they get mre emotional with theyr fathersss :(

Ruksati iz the sadest tymeee :(

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I cried soooo muuuch at my brothers wedding when it was my bhabis ruksati ( everyone was like you should be happy!!), they all got so emotional since her family live in pakistan and she was coming here to live in the u.k with us. even after we got in the car, the two of us couldnt stop crying, my brother bless his was so confused.
I cry at every ruksati haha i always insist we leave early so i dont have to watch it. god knows what i'll be like on my own wedding...might have to carry my make up artist around with me.

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Even when I saw my video I cried when there is a rukhsati scene is coming. I have the song babul ki duaein laiti ja ..... ja tujh ko sukhi sansaar milay... very emotional song by Rafi.

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aw! haha

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OMG i luv that song itz way tooo emotional, wenever i hear it i feel like crying :(

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LOL I always claimed that I am not gonna cry.. I even said that I would be happy to start a new life so it would be very inappropriate to shed tears.. here comes my rukhsati day.. I cried in the morning when my friend tried to force feed me brekkie because I just couldnt believe that it was actually happening.. then everyone made me promise that I won;t cry during rukhsati because make up will be ruined.. come rukhsati time, I was nervous yet not teary but as soon as my mamoN hugged me, I started bawling.. then came my chachoo.. I hugged him, missed my dad a lot and how much I wished him to be alive and cried so much with hiccups and runny nose that I ruined his shirt with my make up all over his shoulders.. later, everyone was like this is it, no more milna milana, she is being stupid.. my mom leaned forward to fix my duppata and I cried a river holding her hands.. just the thought that my mom will be alone considering that it was just two sisters and both of us were leaving her there (my sis is my sil too so she had to go back with us) made me cry even more.. my sister ended up saying that if you cried this much, I will stay here and you take care of my kids at the in laws.. everyone started laughing.. my make up was all gone (my sil's daughter screamed out loud, dulhan ki ankhain gir rahi haiN- fake eye lashes were coming off) so my mom sent my mumani with us to fix my make up!!!Also, my khalas promised that they would all stay at my moms that nite so she won;t be lonely..it was comforting to know that however I was back at my mom's house the very next morning at 9:00AM.. they were all excited-disappointed to see me that early but god I hugged my mom for long followed by anotehr session of rona dhona. so yeah I cried on the day of rukhsati and valima. :D

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^ lol @ dulhan ki ankhain gir rahi haiN
Same here i thought i would never cry on my rukhsati....i was fine through out the whole day .... whn my inlaws and everyone started to get up to leave i started to cry like no tomorow ( i was still on the stage) , from the stage to the car i cried like sooo much...no one hugged me cuz they knew iwas going cry even more...my inlaws live 2-3hrs from lahore so for a good half and hour i cried in the car....my hubby is like im the one who should be crying im the one who is going to be moving away from all my relatives lol.... now we are back in canada and i like a couple houses down from my parents

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I am not married but like when i went to Pakistan for my Holidays in summers, on my return i started crying at the airport because my dad wasnt coming back because of some work etc and my mother and siblings were also coming back...so i guess i might cry at my wedding i have to because i just love my family so so very much, i don't actually need a reason to cry i start crying very easily even when i try hard not to i just do.

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i always knew i was gnna cry jus the thought of rukhsati would set me off. even tho in the period of my wedding i hd sooo many arguments wid my mum and dad , but on my wedding day i did cry not a lot but enuff , my make up wasnt ruined . bt the next day when i was leavin for islamabad i cried like helll ..

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