Tattoo

Lifestyle Relationships
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Maybe 20-30+ years ago that was the case, but they are so common now that that's no longer the case at all.

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Tattoo..yes..huge turn off.

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Those successful people with tattoos are typically not desi, they're usually any group of people apart from Muslims.

Muslims don't believe in tattoos on their body, because of the desecration of the body that God has given you.

So, it follows that a muslim who gets a tattoo --> must have been a rebel.

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aren't you always claiming to be a rebel? y u so judgemental, behenji?

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Or maybe they just didn't grow up around many desis or practising Muslims..

(Tattoos are also pretty common amongst Muslims in places like Kosovo, Albania and Turkey which are in/near Europe)

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Men Think Women With Tattoos Are More Promiscuous, Study Says - International Science Times

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^Men think all sorts of things are promiscuous.

Some desi men think women who leave home before marriage are promiscous, don't they? Or those who go to uni or work?

Might come as a shock to you but not all women are obsessed with that men might think of them..

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I dislike tattoos in general, but I’d be okay if the guy had a discrete one that doesn’t jump in my face everytime I see him :hoonh: Not those biker-type tattoos that cover the whole arm/back certainly!

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must have some ''issues'' to have a tattoo as a muslim.

waits for the people with tattoos to bring fiqh related 'grey area' mumbo jumbo to justify

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^He’s just baiting..

Muslims with tattoos have ‘issues’ but those who commit every other sin apparently don’t :rolleyes:

Buttsb, you sound a lot like a guy called Nomi who got banned..

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So just to clarify, tattoos are against Islam? Or is it more like looked down upon.

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Still, I find them disgusting except some small generic tattoos but even then, I would rather have the person not have it.
Btw, would it be a deal breaker for guys if the bride to be had tattoos? I know that I would be averse to such a woman.

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Not by the amount of topics I see about the opposite gender....

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or maybe they just practise their islam differently? the practise of islam can be quite varied, there are people who don't believe in plucking eyebrows, or dating or having your head uncovered,etc., I would not consider all these people rebels. Muslims as a community seem to pick and choose aspects of Islam, doesn't make one person any less muslim than the other. so who am I to judge on a thing such as a tattoo.

Personally I find tattoo's unattractive, but it wouldn't be a dealbreaker if I liked the guy. Unless his whole body was covered or something. I'd probably consider asking him to laser it off though.

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I think a girl who wears hijab and don;t date, and have tattoos is capable of
balancing social, aesthetic and religious obligations :wub:

Beautifully. :blush:

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Don't see anything wrong with it if its something meaningful and discrete. Nothing silly or juvenile. I guess I would need to understand the reason behind it to accept it. My husbands planning on getting one, he's over 30, it isn't bothering me because what he wants is a reflection of his life that he wants his kids to know about and keep with him. He's also a professional in corporate, don't see how that matters either as long as its not seen and distracting.

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In your case PCG, a list of dealmakers would be much shorter and a lot easier to compile. The dealbreaker list is gonna end up looking like a phone directory.