I’ve been seeing some couples and how they interact - some I’ve seen where one throws antantrum and the other babies them. It is a pattern. The person throwing the tantrum will act like a baby and the other spouse obliges by wiping their arse. Just now on mass transit there is this old man who has a condescending tone with his wife and she keeps her smile and just talks to him in a comforting way.
I don’t know. To what degree is this acceptable and at what point does it become batameezi?
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keep that facts staright. I have only seen the wives throwing tantrums and hubbies babying them, never the other way.
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I meant it as both ways. I'm only using an example happening right before me to illustrate what I mean.
The friend I'm staying with is a big time tantrum girl and I've been seeing her hubby patiently dealing with it. Yesterday we ate so late because we had to wait for her to finish her work. He eats dinner when SHE is ready.
keep that facts staright. I have only seen the wives throwing tantrums and hubbies babying them, never the other way.
True that.
Gosh you didn’t notice my dad 
My mom babies that man. It’s kinda cute.
Someone tell me how to throw a tantrum that works please 
. He eats dinner when SHE is ready.
awww how sweet of him!
My maamon is like that…big baby. lol
Hahahah, I’ve seen guys talking to their wives like I talk to my 3 years old one .. ‘alay alay kiya ho gaya hamaalee palee see baby ko, bhook’koo lagee hai, main abhee khanaa le ke aata hoon’
No no, dad never throws tantrum at mom. If that is true then I throw more tantrums at you and you baby me. PCG is talking about something else.
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look, everyone has their bad days... and its ok to comfort them now and then. If its a constant thing, i guess thats different.
between what exactly is tantrum throwing... what does it involve?
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^ too much of laad nukhray
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I don't know...I mean I don't think it's ok to snap at your sig other if you're agitated over something else
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^ its not but it happens....thats part of marriage.....actually any relationship.
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snapping is natural.. u can try ur best not to let it happen... but sometimes it just happens. And its not as if the other spouse is just taking the crap... they know its just a momentarily thing which if handled properly will just go away.
We all have tendencies to flare up now and then... and if anyone else is like me, i find it easier to let it out on someone close to me who can handle my lil tantrum.. which i would like to call "frustration" and "exhaution" more than anything else..
sounds like the ultimate nightmare scenario... a rational, mature person stuck with an irrational and immature person for life... must be a battle every day.
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^ we prefer to call it “opposites attract” phenomena. and “balancing each other out” 
only if the mature person doesn’t lose it after battling to bring sanity into the relationship every day. can’t imagine something like that lasting for long.
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we're all human.. we all have emotions.. everyone's stamina is diferent too.
It's not a battle... neways, i still dont quite know what tantrums are.
Are they lil fits if ur wife didnt make something right, so u refuse to eat her food?
Is it, if u want to buy something and ur hubby says, not now.. and u disapprove and whine like a baby until u get it?
or is it just being a bit aggitated with one another, because u can be, cus uve had a long day at work, dont get enough sleep, dont get enough rest... so u get all grumpy.
I dunno
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yeah... I guess it just depends on the degree of immaturity in the one partner...
small differences will always occur and are fine. but the problem would emerge when the one person is so immature that they can't see reason. how do you get through to someone like that?
anyway, I'm going to marry Shehnaz Sheikh. and she seems like a mature, rational person and of course, she's drop dead gorgeous. so, I'm okay. you lot can worry about yourselves...
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its different when the other person cant see reason..
being immature is one thing... and having slight frustrations with one another is completely different.
You can both be mature.. u can both agree on many things... but there might be one or two things u guys have difficulty with... with may cause a few headaches. So no big deal
as long as both are willing to work on the issues, life is good.
I am sure shehnaz sheikh has her flaws too.
p.s we're all allowed to be immature now and then too :)
agree with everything you said except for the part in bold.
meri Shanno has no flaws. she is perfect. God bless her…
