Re: Tan skin
it’s actually the opposite…you would think that people would rise above and want to meet you before they make up their minds…but fortunately, showing them a pic in advance helps to weed out those that later may say things that will hurt/frustrate you.
and btw…milky white is not all it’s chalked up to be, excuse the pun with the chalk there 
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a splash of colour with the milk is so much prettier.
hang in there…