I have a lot of questions atm!
Do you think girls should talk to their in-laws before the wedding, i.e. on the phone etc. when the her parents are not there. Particularly if the in-laws initiate the conversation. Or is it better only to speak to them when parents are there.
there is nothing wrong in talking to your in laws at all whether your parents are around or not. .
Also, what about them calling, & sometimes parents telling you to respond to them and then sometimes not to, is it better just to go with as they say,
once in a month if you call them (in laws) for haal chal it will show them that you have manners and respect and you care. if there are any limitations you should ask your parents before hand and they should tell u before hand aswell. agar parents ne manna kiya hua hai baat karne se tou theek hai mat baat karo agar kabhi unki ghair mojodgi main phone ajata hai tou bas normal sa haal chaal pooch lo aur maa baap ko bata do ke phone aya tha bas maine haal chal pooch liya.
although then it makes it awkward when they call & you kind of can’t ask your parents right there and then?
i dont really get this i mean if they have called then no one should hand you the phone (if your parents have told you to not to talk to them) but if you have picked up the phone what are you gonna say “wait let me ask my mom’s permission if i am allowed to talk to you?”
(all this applies to both girl and boy)