Do you think girls should talk to their in-laws before the wedding, i.e. on the phone etc. when the her parents are not there. Particularly if the in-laws initiate the conversation. Or is it better only to speak to them when parents are there.
Also, what about them calling, & sometimes parents telling you to respond to them and then sometimes not to, is it better just to go with as they say, although then it makes it awkward when they call & you kind of can’t ask your parents right there and then?
i dont think that girls should talk to their in-laws before the wedding, one should avoid such a situation. However if you have to talk to in-laws then its best to talk in front of parents.
I think you should follow what your parents tell you to do as they know best and if incase something happens then your parents wont be able to blame you as you went with what they said.
If they call you or initiate the conversation you obviously don't go running to your parents for permission, just don't be rude and continue talking. Your parents aren't your lawyers nor are you being interviewed by the police.
i dont think that girls should talk to their in-laws before the wedding, one should avoid such a situation.
Why?? Obviously no need to become best friends with them lol but at the same time can't see the problem with treating them like any other auntie or uncle and just speaking to them normally..
i don't think there is anything wrong with talking to your in-laws before the wedding especially if they start the convo.............you don't have to go out of your way to talk to them but just be respectable to them when they are with you getting to know them before the wedding also helps develop your relationship with them for after the wedding which is important especially if you are going to be living with your in-laws
Do you think girls should talk to their in-laws before the wedding, i.e. on the phone etc. when the her parents are not there. Particularly if the in-laws initiate the conversation. Or is it better only to speak to them when parents are there.
*there is nothing wrong in talking to your in laws at all whether your parents are around or not. .*
Also, what about them calling, & sometimes parents telling you to respond to them and then sometimes not to, is it better just to go with as they say,
once in a month if you call them (in laws) for haal chal it will show them that you have manners and respect and you care. if there are any limitations you should ask your parents before hand and they should tell u before hand aswell. agar parents ne manna kiya hua hai baat karne se tou theek hai mat baat karo agar kabhi unki ghair mojodgi main phone ajata hai tou bas normal sa haal chaal pooch lo aur maa baap ko bata do ke phone aya tha bas maine haal chal pooch liya.
although then it makes it awkward when they call & you kind of can't ask your parents right there and then?
i dont really get this i mean if they have called then no one should hand you the phone (if your parents have told you to not to talk to them) but if you have picked up the phone what are you gonna say "wait let me ask my mom's permission if i am allowed to talk to you?"
Thanks guys, helpful responses, & have helped me formulate an opinion. The question was in regards to them contacting.
I guess it gets confusing when you were in contact with their siblings before, & now it makes it strange. So, yes, what about if the siblings would call you before, but now obviously they call more, what to do? It makes it awkward right?
I guess it gets confusing when you were in contact with their siblings before, & now it makes it strange. So, yes, what about if the siblings would call you before, but now obviously they call more, what to do? It makes it awkward right?
Thanks guys, helpful responses, & have helped me formulate an opinion. The question was in regards to them contacting.
I guess it gets confusing when you were in contact with their siblings before, & now it makes it strange. So, yes, what about if the siblings would call you before, but now obviously they call more, what to do? It makes it awkward right?
no not at all. as long as your parenst are ok with it (as in talking to him on the phone). if there is any problem your parents will speak to his parents by themselves (like shaadi se pehle baat cheet itni zaida nahi honi chahiye)
