I was just wandering how you talk to your fiance on a regular basis? e.g. phone , msn etc
I think talking on the phone is the best option because he seems like a totally different man on the phone than on msn. We have alot of misunderstandings when we’re chatting on msn lol , i can’t tell when hes joking and end up being mad at him for what he said and then when he says the same thing on the phone and its in like a totally different way
anyway what i’m trying to say is i think chatting to ur fiance on the phone is much better than chatting online , what do u think ?
and also we have had many arguments on silly issues and its only been 5 months since we got engaged , is that a bad thing ?
the more you talk the more silly arguments there are, its best to keep engagements as short as possible.
Phone is better cause you understand the person more, the way something is said is more important then what is said you cant get that from typing unless you know the person well
I don't use MSN, it's just not my thing. I prefer contacting all my friends etc on the phone or texting, so it would be no different for a fiance, in the future i'A.
i agree that talking to fiance leads to alot more misunderstandings than need be. I recently began talking to mine, and the more we talk to the more we end up arguing or misunderstanding each other. and msn....no way, thats just silly unless hes in another country. even on the phone i wouls suggest you dont talk too much. i know alot of peoples whose mangni was broken due to `TOO MUCH contact...so keep abit of distance and whens the wedding, ? I THINK you should get married quickly, mangnis shouldnt linger on and on.....
Isn't it worrying that you are getting into arguments while you are engaged? I've stopped talking to my fiance to make it more exciting on the wedding day (we've known each other and spoken for the last 9 years!)
We speak on MSN every night, and never misunderstand each other. We never have arguments. We have been doing this for nearly a month now (haven't seen him or heard his voice for this long... been soooo hard!) If anything it has made us stronger in our relationship because we miss each other sooo bad. We are literally counting the days to the wedding.
no hina it aint a bad thig ta talk ta ur fiance itz actually a gud thing ur gettin ta knoo him beta, me and ma bf hav onli been togeda 4 3 months and i see himevrri single day wen at colij and we talk n fne at least 3-4 house evrri night and we arnt even engaged like u 2 soo..
its just stupid narazgiyan that we have , but they don’t stay for long
all of u are right , as nadz 123 said too much contact isnt a good thing , but we aren’t getting married for another 2 years. and hes in pakistan so its hard to keep contact through phone as its very expensive calling pakistan, so msn is the best option for us.
and yes it is worrying , i don’t like having arguments with him because it just ruins my whole day … we just don’t understand eachother at times
and then when he says the same thing on the phone and its in like a totally different way 
