talking to a na-Mahram.

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Asalam u alikum! What i really wanna ask is:Is it permissible to talk to a na Mahram..like my cousins or sons of my cousins ..i read at few that it is not permissible..what if i talk to them just about studies..and in limits..and they share their life experiences with me..is it not permissible to even talk to them? I would like serious comments and will appreciate if u quote something for reference too..
Thank u ..

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Re: talking to a na-Mahram.

Islamically, if you observe Hijaab and engage in 'normal' talk, it is absolutely ok. while talking you must watch your 'adaayeN' and avoid dual meaning talks.

same goes for men too. both men and women must observe Hayaa described as above.

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Re: talking to a na-Mahram.

Walaikumussalam

O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women. If you fear Allah, then do not be soft in speech [to men], lest he in whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with appropriate speech. (32) surah al ahzab

You can ask any female friend or cousion, n same they can share their lives with male friend. Better to avoid discussion. Yes if theres any extreme need you may talk as above ayat says. My opinion.

Allah knows best

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Thank u ..yeah but what if the topic of discussion is within limits and is it a gunnah to talk to them?

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Ok..thank u :) but what if they share their secrets with you..be kind to you and when u need help they come to help you..and talk in limits....is it a gunnah? And a major question is it permissible for a man and a woman to be friends?

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Re: talking to a na-Mahram.


of course NOT! you just have to watch your demeanor. andaaz e taKhaatub aur andaaz e adaa par dhyaan rakhnaa hogaa...bas! :)

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Re: talking to a na-Mahram

That's not saying don't speak at all to men, is it.. or only speak if there's an extreme need..

Also, what applied to the wives of the Prophet (PBUH) doesn't necessarily apply to all Muslim women.. another ex of this would be the fact that they wore burqas with only one eye showing.. doesn't mean we're all obligated to do that now..

What they did might be considered 'better' but not necessarily obligatory..

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Re: talking to a na-Mahram.

As long as one doesn't live with in-laws, mahram na mahram things can be worked out by terming them as grey areas.

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Re: talking to a na-Mahram.

that is for debaa . What applies on the wives of Prophet PBUH also applies on all Muslim women.
Surha #24 , verses#30, 31
Tell the believing men to lower their gaze n b modest. That is purer for them. Lo ! ALLAH is aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze n b modest n to display of their adornment only that which is apparent n TO DRAW THEIR VEILS OVER THEIR BOSOMS N NOT TO REVEAL THEIR ADORNMENT SAVE TO THEIR OWN HUSBANDS.........
AND LET THEM NOT STAMP THEIR FEET SO AS TO REVEAL WHAT THEY HIDE OF THEIR ADORNMENT. O believers in order that ye may succeed.

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Re: talking to a na-Mahram.

Surah# 24. Verse#59
O Prophet , tell thy wives n thy daughters and THE WOMEN OF BELIEVERS TO DRAW THEIR CLOAKS CLOAKS close round them (when they go abroad/). That will b better, that so they may b recognized n not annoyed. ALLAH is ever forgiving merciful.
(Above verses v. Clearly show that it is ALLAH ALMIGHTY Himself who commands the women to wear hijaab. Wether u accept it or not, but it is obligatory. We are strange people. Ham loog kuch b nhe mantay and apnay apnay new new meaning nikaal latay han even QURRAN MAJEED Ki Surah say)

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Re: talking to a na-Mahram.

@deeba..

when you recite quran Allah is speaking to you..if Allah is speaking to Muhammad sallal laho alehe wassallam...He is speaking to you as well..Quran is for all muslim...all ahakamat if saying to the wives of prophet is for all of us..

This is the Book about which there is no doubt, a guidance for those conscious of Allah - (2)surah al baqarah