One should avoid discussing marital problems with others, unless there are some serious issues to be taken care of between the couple. The choice of who you seek comfort in and advice is extremely important. Family and friends are always there, however, the person you approach should know you and your spouse really well to be able to hear out both sides of the story. How much of the inside scoop should you share with that person is debatable depending on how serious the issue is. People quite easily lend their bogus suggestions when it comes to spousal relationship, without giving much thought to the issue itself. Keeping things at minimal exposure to others wouldn't take its toll on your married life in the long run.