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it was sahar02! Im sorry sehrysh!
In the private details thread :
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/531951-do-you-share-private-details-with-others.html
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It’s okay, I got to be a sort of bride for checks her watch all of 10 minutes on GS 
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Being a bride is fun
I made you into a married woman
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Involving family is a danger zone, but if it must be done:
If the husband is having an issue with the wife; it's better he goes to her parent(s) for advice.
If the wife is having an issue with the husband; it's better she does to his parent(s) for advice.
Because there is no one better than the parents of the appropriate spouse who can understand and solve. For example, if I decided to go to my mother on how I should deal with husband, how can she possibly know enough about him to give me the right solution, as compared to his mother?
^But that's in a perfect suitation. Like Demi said, many times the Inlaws will turn against you. But you have to be smart enough to analyze your in-laws, and deal with them appropriately and in accordance to their mentality.
But it's always better not to involve ANYONE.
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Life is as easy or difficult as you make it. No man likes being ganged up upon. No man likes his wife complaining to his parents and then getting them involved.
You don't need to be married to understand that.
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**Let us all agree it is better not to involve anyone.
moving on from there, if forced to, if you absolutely HAD to, who would you speak with**
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my mother. She is the best sincere, absorbing and kind listner I could ever have.
Re: Talking about issues with husband
Life is as easy or difficult as you make it. No man likes being ganged up upon. No man likes his wife complaining to his parents and then getting them involved.
You don't need to be married to understand that.
Who said anything about complaining and ganging up on the guy? Oh my...you sound so much like...ugh...doesn't matter.
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I don't know his parents (since I am not married) but if I felt they could be objective and not just take sides with anyone - me or him - I would go to them. Sometimes having elders helps clarify things and helps us see our mistakes too.
My parents are like that. They don't like getting involved in things unless they are put in that position.
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Who said anything about complaining and ganging up on the guy? Oh my...you sound so much like...ugh...doesn't matter.
Read the first post or must I quote for you where the OP states which family to involve regarding issues related to the husband? Ignorance is not an excuse for such posts.
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don't make issues to begin with....... grow a brain first then get married...
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mr brainiac, issues arise, this way or that.
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but sehrysh isnt married lool i think this is all you pal. =\
she is planning to become our future bhabhi. ;)