Talk you out

Do you let others talk you out from something especially if they’re being nice to you?

I have such a bad habit of giving in and let others walk all over me just because they’re praising me. I know this is really bad…a really weak point, Achilles’ heel. How should I try to change it?

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haha. I did sweet talk you into moving my post back. Dint i.

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Sometimes, sure. But lately Im trying to learn not to.

It doesnt help to be talked out of something you originally thought was right...in the end you WILL regret listening to them.

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sure why not. If they are my friends and/or family, they have the right to talk some sense into me. I am look like one but I am not always wise.

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lol, u look strong with chuck norris's Under wear but wise ... nope !

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Chuck Norris is a wise person .. :snooty:

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I’ll let you think that…hehe.

True. :k:

But if someone is praising you to get some gain out of it and you know that, would you find it hard or easy to stay unshaked or you’d listen to that person’s wishes. In simple words, how do you tackle flattery?

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I am the complete opposite. It doesn't serve meWell though. I have a habit of doing the exact opposite of what someone's telling me to do. I am very stubborn, which is exactly why when my husband wants to talk me out of something he makes me think it's my idea. Lol :D

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depends who is flattering me and what gain they might get. If my simple loss is their immense gain, I might let it slide.

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r u leo?

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no. Aquarius.

Do you really believe in that stuff?

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somewhat...
....... but its already too late

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Yeah, sometimes.
I wouldn't show enthusiasm if the group not my type, sometimes pretend cool if i am not interesting in the topic.
so I don't got much embarrassing moment.

But when it comes to good friends, i would like to listen all and talk anything of myself.