talk like a pirate

NomiCA · July 14, 2011, 8:48pm

Re: talk like a pirate

Firstly, that trust is the cornerstone of a marriage. Trust is required and implicit in so many things you do - for instance when the husband goes to work and interacts with female colleagues, the wife trusts that he will remain loyal to her (and vice versa). You cannot monitor your spouse every minute of the day and keep track of every person he/she meets.

Imposing restrictions on his wife will only make her bitter about the fact that he does not trust her. Also making her voice “non seductive” does not solve anything. Today he is concerned about her voice, tomorrow it may be the way she walks, then the way she dresses, and then the way she sneezes :DIf he is that suspicious, he will only find more and more things to worry about. Unless he starts having faith in her, nothing will be solved.

Does he have a reason to not trust his wife? Why is he feeling insecure? Maybe she needs to be more vocal/demonstrative about her affection for him

Is he uncomfortable about one of his friends in particular? If yes, what is the reason? Is it anything he said/did?

Fair enough…then why do women have problem with guys staring other women??