Well if you exclude the visa thing…I have suffered the same from my Ex Husband the additional thing was his Ex. Girl friend he wanted to marry her now
Believe it or not…this greedy nature cannot be generalized to gender. There may be loads of complexes, family issues behind it. But whoever is victim they know its not easy to face. People do gossip about the girl or guy whoever proves to be innocent or culprit …but there is one thing called “makafaat e amal” it did not take more than two years when he fell on his knees and asked me to forgive him because his girl friend used him and kicked his ass out of her life because of an other man & that time he realized he is getting what he did to me but i forgave him
If you are not guilty…and have not done anything wrong, You should not worry what people talk about you. Allah is there and at the end of day…He is the one who is going to bless you in this world or here after. Be it an other life partner…
We get what we believe…If you have faith in God, Its not difficult for him to give you a better alternative. Faith is the key to success
Double standards buddy. We are stamped evil right away without a second thought when a woman does something which is negative then it is "every coin has two sides".
Oh for the number of times women have cried out about double standards and have been denied justice.....I know how you feel.
It's not fair at all.
In every case, be it the man or the woman being accused of wrong-doing, both sides of the coin must be inspected.
Contrary to what everyone's opinions on this forum are.... its a FACT that divorced men get re-married easily, while women have a tougher time getting re-married (unless they're very rich or are celebrities).
So Desilarki, no worries.... I'm sure your friend will get married again, soon.... and hopefully, to someone more compatible with him.
Contrary to what everyone's opinions on this forum are.... its a FACT that divorced men get re-married easily, while women have a tougher time getting re-married (unless they're very rich or are celebrities).
So Desilarki, no worries.... I'm sure your friend will get married again, soon.... and hopefully, to someone more compatible with him.
I completely agree with what you said (about getting re-married). No matter how "modern" someone thinks they are, this double standard lives on in our society!
Oh for the number of times women have cried out about double standards and have been denied justice.....I know how you feel.
It's not fair at all.
In every case, be it the man or the woman being accused of wrong-doing, both sides of the coin must be inspected.
jst watched the Veena malik story in her own words …
i dont know either its related to ths thread or nt jst wana share in general … i dont knw whts the reality n how much is the truthhh in her storrryy … lets the peep decidee … still 10/10 goes for her actinggg …though she is really seriousss .. :@:
Oooppsss… I did not know paki desi girls can be sooo zaalim (even if you consider the story to be 50% correct)… what did she want from the marriage then.. she got an educated Baahir ka larka (which is considered as a lottery for majority of girls and their families living in pak) as her husband… may be she did not want to get married in the first place
Anyways, kuch log hote hain aise… she might have some reasons behind it. I dont think ke koi larki faltoo mein apni shaadi tura kar divorcee bane gi. even a guy would not do that.
And I would not marry a divorcee because I would want my husband to have never been with another woman just like I have neevr been with any guy. I wnat to be my husband’s first love.
Anyways, kuch log hote hain aise... she might have some reasons behind it. I dont think ke koi larki faltoo mein apni shaadi tura kar divorcee bane gi. even a guy would not do that.
And I would not marry a divorcee because I would want my husband to have never been with another woman just like I have neevr been with any guy. I wnat to be my husband's first love.
True... marrying a 'never married before' person can be a tough game since both the spouses need to understand each other and get settled with each other and thus would require a lot of hard work on both the sides especially on the girl's side.. marrying a person with past baggage (a divorced guy) would be problematic as he would always be comparing his new wife to his ex and will make his new wife difficult to get adjusted in the new life...
No because from what i've seen most of the "kunwaray" men don't give a 2nd chance to divorced ladies =) Yes agar ghalti na ho Imight but how will I know it wasn't his fault? :)
bingo!
gets me so mad that young divorced girls aren't given a second chance
You can't handle woman if you don't have strong faith and religion. 99% problems due to it.
You can't change basic instinct of woman. She will die if "exposed".
Women "blow on knots" especially on dark moon nights as mentioned in Surah Naas and Surah Falak. They go to wizards and try to control husbands.
You can't even spare your mother on this....she might be doing it to SON just to keep hold of him when he gets married.
A Sahabi asked Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), should I obey my father or mother? Aap replied, "Your Mother", then again he asked, Aap again replied, "Your Mother", then again "Your Mother". Fourth time he asked, Aap replied "Your Father". It indicates when a man reaches 40 years of his age, he is capable to understand the nature of woman well.
Secondly, if you study other religions including Korean and Japanese, they also have healers called "possessed shamans". According to them, the SPIRITS of ones family ancestors remain on earth till 40 years and keep bothering their children. So, it means the deeds of parents also affect their kids. This is the reason ISLAM says you should feed your kids HALAL income so their lives are better. Westerners call it MID LIFE crisis.
What the HELL are you talking about???
I can't understand a word! U r saying that the Prophet SAW said that obey your father after 40 years of age??? And what's the link between Halal food and mid-life crisis lol
You can't handle woman if you don't have strong faith and religion. 99% problems due to it.
You can't change basic instinct of woman. She will die if "exposed".
Women "blow on knots" especially on dark moon nights as mentioned in Surah Naas and Surah Falak. They go to wizards and try to control husbands.
You can't even spare your mother on this....she might be doing it to SON just to keep hold of him when he gets married.
A Sahabi asked Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), should I obey my father or mother? Aap replied, "Your Mother", then again he asked, Aap again replied, "Your Mother", then again "Your Mother". Fourth time he asked, Aap replied "Your Father". It indicates when a man reaches 40 years of his age, he is capable to understand the nature of woman well.
Secondly, if you study other religions including Korean and Japanese, they also have healers called "possessed shamans". According to them, the SPIRITS of ones family ancestors remain on earth till 40 years and keep bothering their children. So, it means the deeds of parents also affect their kids. This is the reason ISLAM says you should feed your kids HALAL income so their lives are better. Westerners call it MID LIFE crisis.
Double standards buddy. We are stamped evil right away without a second thought when a woman does something which is negative then it is "every coin has two sides".
Well I dunno about other people, but in my case I did not have a problem at all. I married this divorced chick and then 4 months later divorced her cause she was insane and driving me nuts.
I guess it wasn't like a big dhoom dham wedding or anything, I just took her to the mosque one day, took two buddies and the imam read the nikah, that was it. We had already slept together a couple of times, and it was getting shameful for me as I don't do that to Muslim chicks, so we decided might as well do a nikah.
I have Lebanese buddies who pick up more than one girl over the weekend, so in comparison what I did is nothing. All these guys are going to get nice Lebanese wives from back home too.
Every girl after that I talked to for rishta purposes was always so fascinated by my story, lol. It was so entertaining for them.
Anyway few months later I was married again, but this time it was done all properly, ceremonies, parties and all etc..
Now if a guy had a big wedding, lasted a long time, had kids, heck even these guys don't have problems as long as they got cash,
