Taking life towards success!!!

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Re: Taking life towards success!!!

Thanks… Your post was very helpful :)… Im glad some people can try to be serious here :)… Setting up goals is a major skill needed to be successful as well as following the action plan is a plus.

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goals are great but only way you will succeed at goals is to have plans to reach them, the goal is the what, the plan is the when and how broken down into activities, milestones..keep working at those and realize that things change, goals may shift, the plan may have to be adjusted due to external factors, or because you know more about how to accomplish a goal 3 months into the plan then you did when you made the plan, in which case its needed to update plan and miletones.

so this is for the giving structure to it and make it into bite sized achievable tasks

second is how you react or your emotional approach…

when overwhelmed or emotional, meditate…and i dont mean some druid chants here.
just find a quiet place without distractions and sit and relax and let all the fears, anger, frustration, confusion, ambiguoty come at you, accept it, honetly think about how it can impact, likelihood of happening and in the short term what u can and can not do about it, and when should you do something about it…then relax..get up and walk away..it has always worked for me..just avoid getting into the doom and gloom thinking, basically u have to be honest with yourself.

I will recommend a great book, Linchpin. please read it…really.