What kind of unknown factors can distract a person from reaching their goals? I am trying super hard to achieve goals in life but emotional aspect of me does not get too old with time… I like to transform that emotional energy into positive/motivating energy.. How can I maintain a well balanced life from all the negative distraction that puts a barrier on my goals?.. To do list is a great tool but what kind of suggestions do you guys have for me? Help me become the successful woman I always desire to be. Do I need to keep reminding myself of my goals & not get distracted? Wear a band or something… I NEED HELP!!!
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goals are great but only way you will succeed at goals is to have plans to reach them, the goal is the what, the plan is the when and how broken down into activities, milestones..keep working at those and realize that things change, goals may shift, the plan may have to be adjusted due to external factors, or because you know more about how to accomplish a goal 3 months into the plan then you did when you made the plan, in which case its needed to update plan and miletones.
so this is for the giving structure to it and make it into bite sized achievable tasks
second is how you react or your emotional approach...
when overwhelmed or emotional, meditate...and i dont mean some druid chants here.
just find a quiet place without distractions and sit and relax and let all the fears, anger, frustration, confusion, ambiguoty come at you, accept it, honetly think about how it can impact, likelihood of happening and in the short term what u can and can not do about it, and when should you do something about it...then relax..get up and walk away..it has always worked for me..just avoid getting into the doom and gloom thinking, basically u have to be honest with yourself.
I will recommend a great book, Linchpin. please read it...really.
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Thanks... Your post was very helpful :).... Im glad some people can try to be serious here :).... Setting up goals is a major skill needed to be successful as well as following the action plan is a plus.
goals are great but only way you will succeed at goals is to have plans to reach them, the goal is the what, the plan is the when and how broken down into activities, milestones..keep working at those and realize that things change, goals may shift, the plan may have to be adjusted due to external factors, or because you know more about how to accomplish a goal 3 months into the plan then you did when you made the plan, in which case its needed to update plan and miletones.
so this is for the giving structure to it and make it into bite sized achievable tasks
second is how you react or your emotional approach...
when overwhelmed or emotional, meditate...and i dont mean some druid chants here. just find a quiet place without distractions and sit and relax and let all the fears, anger, frustration, confusion, ambiguoty come at you, accept it, honetly think about how it can impact, likelihood of happening and in the short term what u can and can not do about it, and when should you do something about it...then relax..get up and walk away..it has always worked for me..just avoid getting into the doom and gloom thinking, basically u have to be honest with yourself.
I will recommend a great book, Linchpin. please read it...really.
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sehar, and honestly, buy the book linchpin by seth godin. read it, its a very different book. among the best I have read in the last few years..and I read a lot.
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sehar, and honestly, buy the book linchpin by seth godin. read it, its a very different book. among the best I have read in the last few years..and I read a lot.
What is about? I will get it soon :)....
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its about recognizing your potential and making the most of it.
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its about recognizing your potential and making the most of it.
WOW... Lovely concept :)
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its about recognizing your potential and making the most of it.
WOW... Lovely concept
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What kind of unknown factors can distract a person from reaching their goals? I am trying super hard to achieve goals in life but emotional aspect of me does not get too old with time.
unknown factors would be family,their responsibilty will stop you from achieving a personal goal,maybe.
age is never a barrier always believe in yourself ,others will believe in you too...
read nafl prayers for betterment of your inner self peace and tranquility
and always walk away from a bad situation or keep quiet once the atmosphere has absorbed the negative feelings or vibes you will better understand what to do next...
make a plan ,sick it on a door/wall so you can see what you need to do and achieve
and remember this is life it never goes according to plan,things happen,in that case just adjust your plan
Dream,Believe,Achieve
good luck