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^ haha any minute now, kkf is going to break into “tujhe dekha tu ye jaana sanam, pyaar hota hai diwana sanam” :diwana:
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lolz. ab to, maiN us daur-e-be_iKhtiyaarii se guzar chukaa huN…
ab to intizaar hai:
**
aaj unse pahli mulaaqaat hogii
phir aamne saamne baat hogii
phir hogaa kia, kia pataa, kia Khabar!
aaj un se pahlii mulaaqaat hogii! :)**
lafz-e-‘AAJ’ ko ‘January 5’ se mutaabaadil kar deN! 
Re: Taking it slow
It's called having a plan B
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After meeting a rights once for a period of a day, if the guy says he likes you, liked spending time with you and will proceed and talk to his parents but then **also warns you to not develop expectations **and wants to take it slow...
Wth is he on about?
LOL. Been there, heard that. Not the best sign. Seems like you may be dealing with an emotionally unavailable guy..but it's good that he's mentioned talking to his parents as well. Keep your options open, PCG. Tread slowly with this guy, but don't make the mistake of getting too attached to him or limiting yourself only to him.
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He is too immature to know what he wants or wanna do with his life. Or maybe his mind still in infancy and needs permission / guidance from parents in what is good / bad for him. Maybe he thinks his parents might not like you for whatever reasons so playing safe. That is; if otherwise he seems to be a sharif guy. If anything about him is suspicious then just stay away.
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maybe he suspects the real pcg will come out in a bit.
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LOL. Been there, heard that. Not the best sign......
Tread slowly with this guy, but don't make the mistake of getting too attached to him or limiting yourself only to him.
Isn't this what he is suggesting too?
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so... a guy who cannot make up his mind after first meeting = jerk?
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Not only a jerk, but also ‘immature’ and ‘emotionally unavailable’. :halo:
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LOL, kakaballi, just read first post again. I did not notice before that it was the first meeting between PCG and the guy in question. I thought, they've been friends all along or going out. Dont know why I felt so... Maybe tone of the post. So, no I think the guy is just being careful & wants to give it some time before making any commitments.
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I don't think there's anything wrong with someone who tells you not to get too attached when you've JUST met.
Why would you even do that in the first place? And if a guy got that attached to you as soon as he met you...you'd call him creepy and put him on the stalker list.
So, he's being pragmatic and practical. He's using his head and that's what anyone should be doing when its a decision that will impact and/or change the course of your entire life.
And if parental involvement is important to him...just like it is for PCG...then what's the issue? If a girl wants to get her parents' approval for the guy she wants to marry, why can't a guy do the same?
You should only demand what you can deliver yourself.