lose trust or take trust away?
share your ideas on why that happens?
is human ability to be trusting, so vulnerable, that it wont feel trusting even if all trust is placed infront of it?
Dushwari
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lose trust or take trust away? share your ideas on why that happens? is human ability to be trusting, so vulnerable, that it wont feel trusting even if all trust is placed infront of it?
Dushwari
The language of trust is written in the words of love, affinity, care and respect. The package of trust in front of us should be able to withstand the test of time. Suspension is a snake that constantly look for back doors to creep into the package, and make it doubtful. One lie, one misconception, one sarcastic word can poke a hole into the walls of a relationship, and let stink of doubtfulness pollute the whole enchilada of TRUST.
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makes sense, Intelliphant.
suspicion is a sin. when someone refuses to trust when trust is given all out.
it in fact can damage a lot that was not damaged before.
the creepiness is not that powerful, as trust is more resilient, or i would that it is.
true that sarcasm ruins bit by bit or all at once, a relationship, but it must be seen who initiates that and who counters and is doing so to expose double standard and not to further disintegrate the hurting relation.
lie and misconception is the worst for a relationship.
on top of that, poison that somebody else induced in the mind.
what might help is that after all this, a confirmed indication that when people try their best and look back and admit their own mistake and do something to step forward and undo what they did, they may have a chance to at least enable themselves with a redemption and the other person with a closure.
ideally. but it is also true that the general sense in the world today is to not make that effort and to justify own misgiving behaviors.
the sentiment is 'who cares what happens to whom' and that is so disappointing for whatever is the worth of that little bit of the honesty that might have been there in the relationship, if at all.
best,
Dushwari
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dushi....jus wanted to say
i love all ur threads..:)
their soo thoughtful..
Re: takes a split second to become doubtful;
my pleasure, dear canpaki. :>
thanks,
Dushwari
Re: takes a split second to become doubtful;
its very hard to trust...& very ez to lose it.....:(
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dear sara_87,
who do you think, is wrong?
trusting or trust-breaking individual?
Re: takes a split second to become doubtful;
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dear sara_87,
who do you think, is wrong?
trusting or trust-breaking individual?
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.......& ofcourse trust-breaking indviduals r wrong ....:(
BUT.....
trusting the wrong person is wrong too...:(