Re: tahzeeb aur sakafet mey farek
thanks, zobia, Minerva and tariqlkhan.
culture and traditions, customs and beliefs of groups extend or limit human abililty to express who one is as an individual. it has a plus when it is for preventing obvious and harmful outcomes. but it has a minus when a good action is imposed with obstacles and impediments.
tariqlkhan, you made a very good point. tahzeeb is not to be easily disallowed, merely because one happens to be in a different sakafet.
in the context of first generation in any new culture, essentially the fusion of tahzeeb and sakafet introduces many diff viable opportunities to create an eclectic new and more scalable culture as well as personal vision of living everyday life, and conducting equitable, expected, and acceptable transactional inter personal relations.
could we interchange the two with personal accountability of one's own morality and collective unspoken social contract?