Re: Swearing at in-laws
Couldn’t have said it better! This whole mess started because of your insecurities and you managed to drag your husband in it! So what if your MIL gets close to her son? She is his mom!!!
My husband is the only son of his widowed mother and she got him after a lot of struggles and also lost a daughter couple of years back. So you can imagine her love and obsession for him but I respect that because someone in this world loves the guy as much as I do. Why is that a bad thing? She isnt a 27yrs old female trying to steal your thunder. Your insecurities and self esteem issues took over the best of you I guess!
Also you dont have to share every waking thought with your husband, that’s just stupid. Women think & feel on a different tangent then men (its more 3D) and men are very 1D, they only hear the exact words u have uttered instead of your feelings/rational behind it. And even if a thought is bugging you dont approach it so bluntly, be a little smart about it!
I understand where ur husband was coming from when he screamed at you although no doubt he shouldn’t have called you what he did.