Surrogacy

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@Mamaof3

Aldous Huxley said that these days we have vulgarized every thing except death. I believe surrogacy is **vulgarization of human reproduction and fertilisation

Makes sense!
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Hareem, although I see your point and it is a valid one, I dont agree. Having been through infertility, I know what its like to so very much want a baby of my own…and like many women I see surrogacy as a blessing and surrogates as very very special people.

They are if they maintain their right of Motherhood!..:k:

@hareem01

My point is surrogacy should only be allowed under the marriage contract. This is what I get from a muslim Dr Hathout and who is in authority to adress this issue.

Yes!

@Sahar02

So you’re saying the surrogate should be taken on as a second wife?

**Points in that direction!

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@hareem01

Yes, to protect that woman and her child’s rights.

Yes!

@hareem01

@Sahar

I’ve already explain in my previous posts but here’s the summary.

Surrogate mother shall have same right as the man’s first wife i.e. pocket money, inheritence, protection, clothing, food and shelter etc.

The child will be able to recieve 2 years breast milk and inheritence etc

All sound fair enough!

@hareem01

Surrogate mothers are also human and we should treat them like humans not machines, they’re not a thing that you can hire for a while and then forget about them forever.

A wet-nurse has a great status in Islam but do we give them money for breast feeding or after they’re done we forget about them completely? No. Look at the Prophet(SAW)'s example with how much respect he treated his wet-nurse, her children were half siblings to the Prophet(SAW). And she only breast fed her for few months.

Imagine a woman who actually keeps a child in her womb and bears it, what do people do to them?
Do they give them the status of a family member?

A Joint Family structure would be far better than reducing Women to Baby Factories…