i have tried everything .. going to sleep early, etc etc.. but seems like my addiction with computers and gupshup/msn/icq isnt gonna help ..
any people with previous attacks like that with their point of views/helps would be HIGHLY appreciated.. :)) thanks!
teri dunya meri dunya main hay itni doori,
tera aanchal meray haathon main nahin aa sakta,
waqt ki dhoop khari hay sarr pe,
main teray zulf ka saya bhee nahin pa sakta…
. .. ammi, when she drives and goes to work, leaves around 6:30 something, starts the 7am shift.. and when i gotta do that, i have to WAKE up at 5, leave at 6, and barely punch in .. ..
then the mixed problem comes up.. i dont have friends that live neaby, so i gotta visit them into the msn/etc.. and i HAVE to . .so thats why i end up staying late.. and then tired at the job.. (which is very physically demanding in nature)
teri dunya meri dunya main hay itni doori,
tera aanchal meray haathon main nahin aa sakta,
waqt ki dhoop khari hay sarr pe,
main teray zulf ka saya bhee nahin pa sakta…
managing time for what yaar? meaning u want to stay up late to talk with friends.. and still get up early and be on time for work? or are you saying that doing it this way is very tiring.. or what?
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I posted just in three forums well but not too much or never posted in other forums. Have somebody else also this problem or somebody got solution of this probelm please tell me
teri dunya meri dunya main hay itni doori,
tera aanchal meray haathon main nahin aa sakta,
waqt ki dhoop khari hay sarr pe,
main teray zulf ka saya bhee nahin pa sakta…
About how to pack 48 hours in a 24 hour day, I'd like to know the secret too.
But this may help;
1 - decide what your priorities are
2 - decide what it is you do but could forget about
3 - decide what it is that you want to do but can't do it.
then try and make a provisional time table.
Why does it take you so long in the morning to get ready? What do you think is the reason that it take more time for you than your mother???? Practice a speed drill, prepare beforehand, etc...
Try spending some time alone to figure out your priorities, probably write down your aim on paper (eg…I am not going to spend more than ‘x’ no of hrs on gupshup/msn/ecq etc) See if that helps… It will all come down to self-control
teri dunya meri dunya main hay itni doori,
tera aanchal meray haathon main nahin aa sakta,
waqt ki dhoop khari hay sarr pe,
main teray zulf ka saya bhee nahin pa sakta…
teri dunya meri dunya main hay itni doori,
tera aanchal meray haathon main nahin aa sakta,
waqt ki dhoop khari hay sarr pe,
main teray zulf ka saya bhee nahin pa sakta…
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Originally posted by Muni:
*Confused,Sometimes, you've gotta realize that you can't do everything in a day. Figure out what is reasonable and try to do those things. *
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thanks yar Muni .. i am trying the best.. schedule IS gonna be like that till mid august, after that i have to buy a car for sure, cuz i would be going to yasir's college, and thats WAYYY far from here where i live, so i MUST have a car.. (otherwise three hours of travel one way) sheeesh.. u knoww =) so thats why i am trying my best to work hard NOW and get nuff resources so i can afford the college/car/etc expenses all together..BY SEPTEMBER! =(
teri dunya meri dunya main hay itni doori,
tera aanchal meray haathon main nahin aa sakta,
waqt ki dhoop khari hay sarr pe,
main teray zulf ka saya bhee nahin pa sakta...
Confussed, from what you have described, I don't think you can change anything, lest you decide to descrease your online presence.
I am not in the type of work you are in but my day starts at 0640 hrs. leave home around 0715, get to work by 0850, start day at 0900, leave work around 2130, get home by 2230, eat two sandwiches and a coke dinner on the way, read namaz and then get to bed.
Schedule is on 4-day week. Rest is spent studying. I am married with kids. That means house work, cleaning, gorceries (both hus/wife together or separately). My driving to/from work is ~108 miles per day.
I try to stick with GS but when I have "time". What I see you doing is focusing on your need to connect with your friends at the cost of your sleep. If it's your friends who come over, they should understand your situation and, as such, work with your schedule. It would very rude of me, comparatively, to try to visit a friend at 2000 hrs. knowing that they go to bed at that time.
Personally, I see two issues from your information: dedication to GS, msn, etc, and firends visiting. Confused, sometimes, when you hit a physical/mental snag due to lack of rest it can have the potential of driving you to a burn-out point. Now, that would be a really bad situation to be in.
Or you live without enough sleep and learn to cat-nap....and that has it's own repurcussions due to lack of enough rest...
Agar jihaad-e-nafs peh koi shair aata to keh dayta.
regarding dedications to friends, machines, msn etc, wellllllllllllll, put it this way, that from 4-5 years, thats ALL the life for me .. ;-) ..
sleep .. ah . .something that u do when body screams HAMM BHEE HAIN RAAHON MAIN, KUCH NAZAR-E-KARAMM IDHAR BHEE..
Confused, sometimes, when you hit a physical/mental snag due to lack of rest it can have the potential of driving you to a burn-out point. Now, that would be a really bad situation to be in.
oh, always happens.. you will notice from GS that i disappear from GS like for three-four days IN A row, and then come back with a bang.. (admins know from flood controls kheekheekhee).. khair,
yar situation has started to get a lil better.. (catnaps, LOVE this terminology and its effect).. what i do is sleep between bus travels, etc.. so its kinda getting better, i am able to concentrate more and more on highest priority for now (work till mid august)..
thankx everyone for their kind replies, suggestions and comments.. love u all..
jitni hain khushyon ki gharyaan,
mill ke sabb wo baant lain,
thori si to zindagi hay, hanss ke issko kaat lain...
