Re: Super-helpful or controlling?
So…is this a joint family living arrangement? Or do you/hubby live in a separate house?
And if its your kitchen…so what your FIL put the stuff in there already? Since you clearly have plenty of free time due to your in-laws doing all the work…go in and re-arrange the kitchen the way you want.
Has you in-laws actually told you not to go for a walk, or not to cook/clean etc?