Super Confused

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Re: Super Confused

@mehroze

AOA everyone hope you all have been doing well. as most of you know my marriage issues and what happened a few months earlier and how i broke down the way my husband married another woman chosen by his mom just coz they declared me crazy or whatever. well i was broken totally but just because of Allah and all your prayers i took proper medications and keeping myself busy with my son i moved on with my life accepting realities and that he was nothing but a mamas puppet. i visited my friend in london when i got a msg from my husband saying he wants to talk to me etc i ignored it and never replied after a few weeks i came back with my son and at 2am my guard called me saying mam sir wants to come inn should i let him in i allowed and the min he came inside he fell in my feet like a beggar and was crying like a child i said excuse me my son is sleeping please stop he said i lied to u i was a fool i hurt you i deserve death like a rock i stood Allah made me so strong that min i just said well go beg in front of Allah and stop creating a scene here u did what u did now leave me alone he pulled out a gun and like a lunatic said shoot me i don’t deserve to live u luved me and just because u weren’t well my mom brainwashed me and i ended up screwing u over please baby i cant live from the past few months i cant sleep i cant stop thinking about u and even when i sleep i see u in my dreams baby just give me one chance i left her i told her Mehru is the woman i will always luv and i will die i cant carry on like this. my mom has gotten against me but baby i don’t care i luv u and that’s it i was a fool i thought things will be sorted but i cant live without u baby please forgive me. i just calmed him down but my son woke up and he said u are my family i cant hurt u anymore. i told him look i need time its not easy for me to forget what happened etc. since that day he drinks every night and stays outside my house like the way it happens in movies and keeps on calling me till i ans the phone and when i do the lunatic behavior. he sleeps the whole day and doesnt go to work even our common friends are calling me to take him to a session with some physicist. i cry every night looking at him this way as he was a very strong man and now its like he has become a desperate woman i really dont know how to deal with it i luv him but hmmmm am so confused. please advise

well u have to gv him a second chance because he the father of ur son,take him to the doctor ortherwise it will be too late,things are on ur side,now its up to u how u handle things…after he gets welll from his current situation,you both can talk and sort things out calmy…ask him why he married on the will of his mum…and if he dosen’t satisfy u,then its up to u to leave him or to be wid him…