Re: Suitable marriage proposals?
Not judging, just saying. Yes it is not easy to find a good rishta out there, which is more of reason to start scouting for potential candidates from early on and keep an eye on them for your daughter. Also, if it’s difficult for the parents to find someone, why should it be easier for a respectful Pakistani girl to find herself rishta? Which one easier, the parents finding someone with mother’s access to people’s homes, or a respectful Pakistani girl looking for a man on her own? Anyways sis May allah give you the best husband for your dunya and Akhira.
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Thank you, I’m just scared I won’t be able to find someone who is decent and respectful and whos like me. I have been praying and reading duas etc and i know that allah SWT has a plan for everyone and i have faith in HIM… My family has a lot of bad examples of marriages with the wrong people and it turning out bad and i don’t want to end up with a bad life partner, or myself not be right for them. My parents have been looking for quite a bit of time etc but apparently, my aunty has been spreading bad things about me and my immediate family so people that my parents know think bad of me and my family but we are not like this at all, and all this affects getting potential rishtas in the future for me and my siblings and like I said it’s not like me to go approach guys myself so I can’t find one myself. I don’t know what to do.