Re: ^^^ Suicide ^^^
Very SAd indeed .....
PS. Committing suicide is HARAAM .... a person does so remains in hell fire .. but as the thread opener said no matter how many difficulty or problems we are facing .. it dnt mean we give up this precious gift .. a person who has bad deeds etc will eventually be taken out of hell fire (as its our imaan......as long as he/she is muslim .. but a person who committs suicide be it muslim .. will never be taken out fro hell ...basically.. he/she is non muslim no longer since they ve committed suicide...
...yea sad indeed .... and SELFISH aslo ..cos those who committ suicide dunt think what pain and agony they will put their loved ones once they die .. .. i was in pakistan few years bak .. and one of our neighbours ... a young lad aged round 22 - 24 committed suicide ..hanged himself ..... no one til today knows why he committed suicide .... but the painful thing was that he put his family in to pain to ..cos the day he committed suicide was Eid Ul Adhaa ... just before when everyone was about to perform their qurbaanis ... so think .. how bad your brothers and sisters relatives feel when a person committs suicide ... its painful enuf when a person passes away a natural cause ....... so why be selfish and take ur own life and leave the once you love behind in misery ...
... and just a few months later ... after the above incident .... a young girl ... she was about to get married ... and her family was happy and all that ..BUT the problem was that she never told no one except one of her bro ... that she dunt want to get married to this lad .... the bro who knew about this ..came to my unkil to talk to on this issue that my unkil talk to his parents that our sister dunt want to get married to this lad... so my unkil said ok ...... on that same day ... whilst the girls bro was with my unkil .. she comitted suicide by shooting her self under the chin by blowing her head off with a rifle..... she had her lil neice with her to look after and she put the lil girl to slp outisde in the veranda and locked the room from inside and switched the tv on loaded the rifle and lyed down on the bed and pulled the trigger .....
What i / others to learn from this is that never be to hesitant in making decisions ... and make ur self heard ... tell ur parents or whoevr is above u or listens to u ...that you have troubles ...and u cant do such and such thing ... or u dunt agree with something ... or with someone ... cos this girl didnt do these .. and didnt wait for her bros help ... she thought i ll end it myself ... and how sad it was that she was the only sister of three brothers.........