Please don't plan so much. It will not work. Just let the things flow spontaneously.
In such enxiety and disturbance , can one perform all this ( 2 rakat namaz and the forehead and recitaton thing before breaking the ice? I DO NOT THINK SO .
i will only talk about MYSELF. if i pray before i have sex, i don't think i'll be able to have sex that night because i can't get in the mood of romance after i have prayed.
Come on guys get some life will ya .... this is the sunnah way to do it. WHAT OTHER WAY WOULD YOU FOLLOW OTHER THAN THE PORPHET'S (P.B.U.H)
And you pray so that satan stays away and you remain protected. If you wish to do it the way the ignorant (nonbelievers) do it then there is no difference between them and you.
SORRY about being so harsh pal but face it ....
May Allah give me and the rest of US .... HIDAYAH !
AMEEN !
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