Suhaag Raat

Lifestyle Relationships
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*Originally posted by Faisal: *
I know of a married couple who consumated one month BEFORE the wedding

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that is fornication.

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*Originally posted by seeker: *

that is fornication.
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I'm assuming he meant that the nikah had already been done, and consumated before the actual wedding took place.

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*Originally posted by Fret Wizard: *
I'm assuming he meant that the nikah had already been done, and consumated before the actual wedding took place.
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Thanks for clearing it up because I was just about to contact my local MMA representative.

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*Originally posted by seeker: *

Thanks for clearing it up because I was just about to contact my local MMA representative.
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MMA here..................
it is right that people get to know each other before marriage...................it has become very common in liberal and semi liberal enviroments.......but when one of them is not resposive (i mean dont want to talk) then its a different story .......................any way those who wait for 20-30 years for doing it dont wait for more then 2-3 days.........

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question has come up so many time, i wonder why the kids dont just wait till their marriage and find out.... :p

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*Originally posted by armughal: *
question has come up so many time, i wonder why the kids dont just wait till their marriage and find out.... :p
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but armughal uncle, don't you think one should be prepared...

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*Originally posted by Phat_gurl: *
I don't get it. How are two individuals, strangers to each other, supposed to be intimate? Don't they act shy or feel odd?
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I used to think the same, now i know otherwise.

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*Originally posted by SaadiaB: *

I used to think the same, now i know otherwise.
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Please do tell us more. Thanks.

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lol, well after getting nikkahfied (only!), being it arranged and love involved, feelings changed drastically for that one person, something i can’t explain in words, so i think everyone must experience it like me, thats why that person is not a ‘stranger’ anymore but your lifepartner, so shyness and the rest fell apart, as all you want is to make the other person happy with your words and your actions :blush: awww can’t go any futher with explainations, you all must know. :slight_smile:

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I do havto agree with saadia here… this is so true.. once u actually signed those papers, the whole feeling is actually changed towards your life partner… other person doesnt remain stranger anymore… i remember that day, once we r done with paper work wagera n we had to do the photo shoot n all… i dont even remember being shy of holding his hand or standing close to him n stuff… weird thin is .. i dont even felt odd… LoL… it was back then though… m a lot more comfortable with him rite now .. i cant even imagine a life without him :blush: ah well… mayb cos i had time to get to kno him better.. but its not really like if u have a time or not… u just havto get through it once to get that feeling…

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well consider this. when ur a virgin, havent touched anyone from the opposite sex all ur life in any sexual way. on ur shuaag rat ur bound to feel horny and not too shy.

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*Originally posted by eddy: *
well consider this. when ur a virgin, havent touched anyone from the opposite sex all ur life in any sexual way. on ur shuaag rat ur bound to feel horny and not too shy.
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I think this is only true for the horney men!

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nothing wrong with horny men. its only a mechanism designed to maximize reproductive fitness if used appropriately.

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I think I would not like to do it anyways, couse everybody is expecting you to do,
thats the main thing for me not to do it.

as for not knowing the person etcetera,
I think Aleez and Saadia explained it very well here. :-)

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*Originally posted by hanie: *
I think I would not like to do it anyways, couse everybody is expecting you to do,
thats the main thing for me not to do it.

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That shouldn't be a reason for you not to do it. You should do it, or not do it for your own reasons, not because of other people expecting you to :) Just my 2 cents.

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Re: Suhaag Raat

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*Originally posted by Phat_gurl: *
I don't get it. How are two individuals, strangers to each other, supposed to be intimate? Don't they act shy or feel odd?
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as they say..
Andheeri raat main
Diya Teray Hath main.. ;)

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Hmmm :hoonh: u did it before the nikha leejay didnt u :mad2:

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If it's as a Muslim you are talking about, then it is your duty to have great sex. We have had scholars and ullamas 600 to 700 years ago who wrote books on how to enjoy and have great sex. The books even explain how to master the art of foreplay. So, in conclusion, except anal sex and sex outside of marriage, man, you are supposed to go wild. Kinky sex? Go for it! Kama Sutra? Heck...That's for kids...Remember, it's your duty to please that (rightfully and legally married) booty...

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suhaag raat pe :bhangra: :nuch: karo aur enjoy karo…

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*Originally posted by Fret Wizard: *

That shouldn't be a reason for you not to do it. You should do it, or not do it for your own reasons, not because of other people expecting you to :) Just my 2 cents.
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yeah,
par if I dont feel comfy with that thought I wont do it,